I know you're trolling; however, there are real people who think this way, and there are even more real people who think all feminists think this way. Feminism isn't about women against men. It's not about how awesome it is to have a vagina, or waging war on men, or defeating male enemies. It's about liberating women. It's about stopping gender oppression.
I'm bisexual. If I wanted to, I could stop having sex with men. I DON'T want to, though. Not having awesome, hot sex with somebody I love because I'm afraid of somehow ~betraying feminism~ isn't liberating. Hell, not having awesome, hot sex with somebody I DON'T love because I'm afraid of somehow ~betraying feminism~ isn't liberating, either.
Although the whole "the personal is political" thing has its place, ultimately, every good political movement is about minimising suffering and maximising happiness. If having sex with men makes you unhappy, don't do it. If you like having sex with men, though, not doing that isn't going to help anybody. It's not going to make anybody happier, it'll just make you less happy. You aren't obligated to live your life a certain way because you owe it to feminism. The only thing you need to do is try not to contribute to the oppression of other people. It's harder than it sounds, but it has nothing to do with what kind of steamy, sweaty, consensual, adult sex you have.
is it normal i dont have sex because i dont want to pleasure males?
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I know you're trolling; however, there are real people who think this way, and there are even more real people who think all feminists think this way. Feminism isn't about women against men. It's not about how awesome it is to have a vagina, or waging war on men, or defeating male enemies. It's about liberating women. It's about stopping gender oppression.
I'm bisexual. If I wanted to, I could stop having sex with men. I DON'T want to, though. Not having awesome, hot sex with somebody I love because I'm afraid of somehow ~betraying feminism~ isn't liberating. Hell, not having awesome, hot sex with somebody I DON'T love because I'm afraid of somehow ~betraying feminism~ isn't liberating, either.
Although the whole "the personal is political" thing has its place, ultimately, every good political movement is about minimising suffering and maximising happiness. If having sex with men makes you unhappy, don't do it. If you like having sex with men, though, not doing that isn't going to help anybody. It's not going to make anybody happier, it'll just make you less happy. You aren't obligated to live your life a certain way because you owe it to feminism. The only thing you need to do is try not to contribute to the oppression of other people. It's harder than it sounds, but it has nothing to do with what kind of steamy, sweaty, consensual, adult sex you have.