Is it normal i don't want my bf to eat me out?

So, my bf is always asking me to let him eat me out. But I just DO not WANT to.

I think it'd be horrible of me to make him have pubic-hair and goo and that strong smell and taste all in his face. I also think it'd be disgusting to kiss him afterwards...

I don't think I'd mind giving him a bj so that's not a problem.

What do you think, IIN?

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Based on 27 votes (13 yes)
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  • shade_ilmaendu

    Most men really like the taste in my experience. O.o My ex (now fwb) likes when I squirt when he's eating me out..

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    • dappled

      Eep! I read your comment in public.

      Danger! Danger!

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      • shade_ilmaendu

        Oops... :x

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        • dappled

          You fuc... argh! I fell for the same trick twice. Don't reply to this until I'm home. It make dappled head bad. :P

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          • shade_ilmaendu

            <.<.....
            >.>.......

            So what time do you get home? :P
            This is just too funny.

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            • dappled

              I'm just home now! Ha! I really did stay off IIN. You almost had me arrested twice. And one woman stared at me adjusting my trousers to make them less... triangular.

              Home. Curtains shut. And nobody is here. Free of your wicked spell at last. :P

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  • NotFloydzie

    You're keeping a very closed mind. Remember that the taste and the smell comes from YOU. You basically set yourself up as disgusting.

    I love both my scent and my taste, and so far, I haven't had any complaints from the person I've been with.

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  • Gravy

    Sweetheart, your missing one of the greatest joys in life. Chill out, relax & enjoy your body. If your pussy has a stench about it, you probably have a yeast infection (very common and easily treatable).
    about pubes, consider a full wax job, it's a supa turn-on, I've got a boner just thinking about it. I've been on the shitter for 1.5 hrs taking a dump & playing IIN. I'm gonna snap this off, crawl back to bed and chew out my GF. if you are within 50m you will hear a wolf type of howl in about 10min. yep she's a howler which is a little embarrassing when we have guests.

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    • shade_ilmaendu

      Ugh, I hate being a screamer when people are staying over. -.- It's so hard for me to be quiet.

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      • Gravy

        you are talking about sex right? or taking a dump?

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        • shade_ilmaendu

          ._. That sounds like a really bad poop dude...

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          • Gravy

            yeah, teeth marks in the back of the dunny (toilet) door!

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        • Gravy

          just joking, yes embarrassing for the screamer, but makes me feel like SupaGravy when I make my grand appearance. high 5s, autographs, phone numbers.

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  • kelili

    The smell is not horrible! WHy do some girls say that. As a female I think that my pussy smells fine. A salty smell after a long and hot day but the smell is not horrible.

    If it's as terrible as you are saying then maybe you have a yeast infection. It's happens to most women once in their lifetime so don't worry. It's easy to treat.

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  • WHO THE FUCK keeps giving thumbs down to my comment? FUCK YOU ASSHOLE!

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    • Gravy

      Where's the "thumbs down button"? Can't see it on my phone. I've been calling everyone a cunt when their comment suxs. Much more polite use to the "thumbs down / your a cunt" button.

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  • MsWVgal

    It's normal to feel awkward about it. If you are truly uncomfortable with it, just say no. If its just the details you mentioned, then take a shower and do some trimming first. No biggie. And like others said, if the smell really is that strong then you should consider that you have an infection. Or change your diet to improve your system balance.

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  • kinklu

    I think vaginas not only smell good after a shower, they are so tasty they are habit forming. And the variations in the lips and the clitoris are endless. Some have big labia, some have lips like wings which could give them the ability to fly. Some clitorises are tiny and recessed while some are large and prominent. Some lubricate like a new oil well and some not quite as much. I have never met a vagina up close that I did not like. They are the origin of all of us and most of us guys have been trying to get back in almost as long as we've been out.

    In no way do I wish to cheapen the subject of the vagina. I just have derived so much pleasure from them that I can't help being fond of them, and, as a result, I can't praise them and their owners enough. Hail to the Vagina!

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  • Dee(M)

    You shouldn't be embarrassed about your body. So long as you wash regularly you should smell and taste great. If you worry about pubic hair then surprise him by shaving. The "goo" is just wetness, it's perfectly natural and is like sweetened water more than anything.

    Honestly, if you taste it off your finger you'll see that there is nothing to fear. And if you don't want him to kiss you afterwards then he can rinse his mouth out first. It would be no different than him asking you to rinse your mouth after he cums in there, though again there is nothing dangerous in kissing after either act.

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  • oliveyou

    Sometimes I don't want my BF to eat me out either but that is more because he isn't very good at it..

    That being said I'm sure your BF won't mind the taste/smell, he will probably actually like it. Just keep it clean and either trim or shave/wax your pubes

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    • Gravy

      My apologies in advance as you have not asked advice... but are you able to coach him? Maybe find a porn flick with some dude who is a guru at cunnalingus. I am dot much into porn but I was coached this way.

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  • Thatguy777

    Think of it from his perspective. You said that the smell and taste would be strong and disgusting, but for him it's probably a huge turn on! You should let him return the favor.

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  • lc1988

    Daaaaaaamn I'm the opposite. I ask my bf to do it and I get shut down every time except for twice...and we've been dating for almost 3 years.

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    • Gravy

      time to find another BF. I cannot understand why either man or women would not like this. It is the next most natural thing to breathing. A woman's pussy is an enigma and the should be adored, explored and worshipped.

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  • oldbird

    most women feel quite 'icky' and vulnerable about it. At first. Its a very intimate thing to do and have done to you, which freaks some women out. But if he wants to do it why are you thinking its gross? I bet he wouldnt suck a penis for the reasons you described. But you say you'd be ok with it

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