First of all I understand such break ups hurt, but let me show it to you from he's point of view: Who wants there partner to be controlling who they see and don't see, it puts pressure on you and makes you want to rebell. Then you appear to be the despearate type because you are showing him that you are scared he might leave you for another girl which shows lack of confidence and also lack of trust. But yes no one want to be 'that girl' as it appears to be a weaker position, but in a way thats how you came across, and I'm sure if you were(or are if that is what the future holds) willing to trust him and allow him to pick and choose and see he's friends, he will love you for it. Especially at 17, young people enjoy their space and freedom and do not like people telling them what to do.
Is it normal I don't wana be "that desperate girl"
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First of all I understand such break ups hurt, but let me show it to you from he's point of view: Who wants there partner to be controlling who they see and don't see, it puts pressure on you and makes you want to rebell. Then you appear to be the despearate type because you are showing him that you are scared he might leave you for another girl which shows lack of confidence and also lack of trust. But yes no one want to be 'that girl' as it appears to be a weaker position, but in a way thats how you came across, and I'm sure if you were(or are if that is what the future holds) willing to trust him and allow him to pick and choose and see he's friends, he will love you for it. Especially at 17, young people enjoy their space and freedom and do not like people telling them what to do.