I agree, but I understand why some enjoy this. I like having a connection and knowing to person I sleep with, the sex is always better when you're comfortable with your partner.
You know, hooking up with somebody just for sex is OK, too. Sex is fun and needn't be an all or nothing proposition. If you only have sex with someone you love deeply, you are going to miss out on a lot of really fun flings. Emotional attachment has it's own problems and sometimes it's easier to not have all those complications.
I know that's why I said I understand why people enjoy it. I get why having no attachment at all can be better for some, but in my experience I can't get off unless it's with someone I really have feelings for. I've had hookups but it's not something I really liked.
I don't have a problem with people having flings for pleasure!
Is it normal I don't understand the "fast" sex life?
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I agree, but I understand why some enjoy this. I like having a connection and knowing to person I sleep with, the sex is always better when you're comfortable with your partner.
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You know, hooking up with somebody just for sex is OK, too. Sex is fun and needn't be an all or nothing proposition. If you only have sex with someone you love deeply, you are going to miss out on a lot of really fun flings. Emotional attachment has it's own problems and sometimes it's easier to not have all those complications.
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I know that's why I said I understand why people enjoy it. I get why having no attachment at all can be better for some, but in my experience I can't get off unless it's with someone I really have feelings for. I've had hookups but it's not something I really liked.
I don't have a problem with people having flings for pleasure!