Just so you are aware, if you have the intention of taking this relationship into bed, friends first doesn't qualify as an opener. However, some women have been hurt before! Some have put their hearts on an exposed string and had it trampled by some A-Hole lowlife. If that's the case communication is the best solution. You can ask about her past and find out what happened. You could also be really bold and just come out and tell her your desires (her). Talking first is the best way to go due to the unexpected revelations she might let slip. Being too bold would frighten her away. Not a great move in your scheme of things. Just stay cool! Get the answers before you move for the pounce. And most of all STAY COOL!!!
IIN I don't understand "friends first and see if something develops"
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Just so you are aware, if you have the intention of taking this relationship into bed, friends first doesn't qualify as an opener. However, some women have been hurt before! Some have put their hearts on an exposed string and had it trampled by some A-Hole lowlife. If that's the case communication is the best solution. You can ask about her past and find out what happened. You could also be really bold and just come out and tell her your desires (her). Talking first is the best way to go due to the unexpected revelations she might let slip. Being too bold would frighten her away. Not a great move in your scheme of things. Just stay cool! Get the answers before you move for the pounce. And most of all STAY COOL!!!