I'd guess that girls who let guys "compete" aren't actually looking for a relationship anyway. Of course, some girls will flirt back even when they aren't interested, which makes it hard to find out if they like you or if they are just habitually responding flirtatiously.
I'm maybe look elsewhere for a girlfriend, rather than a bar. Friends of friends are a good place to start.
Is it normal I don't try to compete with other guys for girls?
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I'd guess that girls who let guys "compete" aren't actually looking for a relationship anyway. Of course, some girls will flirt back even when they aren't interested, which makes it hard to find out if they like you or if they are just habitually responding flirtatiously.
I'm maybe look elsewhere for a girlfriend, rather than a bar. Friends of friends are a good place to start.