I guess I was in a vaguely similar situation once. I mean I would fuck this super hot girl. And I had really low self esteem, and didn't get why she wanted to with me. Also used to have a crush on her/still did, and she knew. And she was fucking other guys, which I didn't "know" but I knew.
If you're anything like me any advice will be lost because you're gonna stay in it no matter what.
I also lost my virginity to that girl.
But later I got way more confidence. And realized I was hot and like have since been with girls who maybe aren't as hot on paper, but I was more attracted to. And then you'll have the amazing feeling of another person actually considering your feelings acting on it.
I recently had this girl talk to me first because she lived a couple hours away and we got to hang out every couple of weeks, and then she wanted to kiss this other guy who lived in her town so she spoke to me about it first. I guess I still have a ways to go but it felt really good.
I mean yeah in retrospect I wish I had gotten out ASAP, but I had people telling me that and it fell on deaf ears. So I would just say try to love yourself, even if you can't just trying is still really good. And know how blind you are to how hot you are, especially as a girl, you have NO IDEA, especially the hotter ones.
dont do anything stupid, and I know it is unfathomable, but there will be a time thinking about this guy will make you feel barely anything and you will be getting BETTER dick
Is it normal I don't mind being used by him?
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I guess I was in a vaguely similar situation once. I mean I would fuck this super hot girl. And I had really low self esteem, and didn't get why she wanted to with me. Also used to have a crush on her/still did, and she knew. And she was fucking other guys, which I didn't "know" but I knew.
If you're anything like me any advice will be lost because you're gonna stay in it no matter what.
I also lost my virginity to that girl.
But later I got way more confidence. And realized I was hot and like have since been with girls who maybe aren't as hot on paper, but I was more attracted to. And then you'll have the amazing feeling of another person actually considering your feelings acting on it.
I recently had this girl talk to me first because she lived a couple hours away and we got to hang out every couple of weeks, and then she wanted to kiss this other guy who lived in her town so she spoke to me about it first. I guess I still have a ways to go but it felt really good.
I mean yeah in retrospect I wish I had gotten out ASAP, but I had people telling me that and it fell on deaf ears. So I would just say try to love yourself, even if you can't just trying is still really good. And know how blind you are to how hot you are, especially as a girl, you have NO IDEA, especially the hotter ones.
dont do anything stupid, and I know it is unfathomable, but there will be a time thinking about this guy will make you feel barely anything and you will be getting BETTER dick