Is it normal i don't like that my boyfriend drinks

I..don't like the fact that my boyfriend drinks Vodka, it actually really bothers me, I'm turned off, is this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • are you a non-drinker? If so then I would understand your turn off of him drinking. You can tell him it bothers you and see if maybe he cuts back or explains why he has no problem with drinking. Communication is key

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  • Omg I'm the same way. I don't like when they smoke either. ESPECIALLY when they brag about it. That pisses me off so much.

    I'm only 16 so it's pretty much impossible to find a guy my age that isn't like that though. I don't see myself dating for a long time. Not just because of this though, lots of reasons.

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  • Not normal at all. He should do what ever he wants and you should stop nagging him and trying to be his second momy! He has a mommy and you are not her! Totally abnormal. Girls like drunken men because they are honest prone. A drunk man never lies. So, if you like liars then don't date drunk men!

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  • hell i just join my boyfriend. only thing better than watching him get drunk, is a drunk me watching him get drunk. it can get pretty amusing you should try it

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  • totes normal!!! I mean yeah, my bf drinks some and I'm not crazy about it either, but he doesnt drink alot alot so I deal with it.

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  • ok..it is normal but u gotta get over it..u went out with him for who he was and he shouldnt have to change..if u have a problem with that then dump him..

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  • Does he beat you?
    and second question...
    Do you deserve it?

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  • Janith
    .. I have your same problem. Everyone in high school is about the drugs, alcohol, parties, and sex. It just ruins relationships. :/

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  • Totally normal.. My bf does the same thing. If he has a drinking problem get out early!

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  • like what kind of emotional abuse?

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  • It's normal. And if anyone abuses you in any way you should drop their ass.

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  • Absolutely normal. It's a horrible habit. Nothing is wrong with disliking someone who drinks too much.

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