There are far more nice guys than douchebags out there, the only difference is that the douchebags are noticed more, and yes, even chosen more, despite how you females want to brand your morality levels.
I find the whole "Guys that say they're good guys are actually douchebags" part just BS. You're trying to justify your choice of not picking nice guys over assholes by stating that the nice guys that claim to be nice guys are actually assholes.
I think it is completely acceptable and understandable why a guy will bring up the "friendzone" talk. I for one am sick of seeing so many nice guys interested in a girl, then when the girl that picked the douchebag over the majority of guys that were nice, she sits there screaming "Where are all the good guys? All men are pigs, men don't know how to love a girl. Where are all the good guys"...Well they're in the friendzone where she left them.
If a woman would preffer being friends with a guy, that is understandable, and I can understand that. What I absolutly hate is when a girl will reject someone, then say she's looking for a guy with certain qualities, and all the guys she rejected has all of those qualities, then she goes for a good looking asshole with none of the qualities.
It is actually irritating how the commenters have commented and this whole statement. This is just another fine example of how women can't take resposnibility for something they do wrong and bring on themselves, and it's one of the reasons why I have never tried to enter the whole relationship game.
Ugh. Women, grow up. Just because you pick the asshole, then realize that you picked the asshole when you friendzoned so many nicer guys doesn't make it right for you to use good guys as a scapegoat and say "Oh, well, erm, the good guys are assholes too! Yeah, yeah, that's why I picked the biggest asshole before I picked the good gu...Oops, I mean lesser assholes".
Grow up.
(Yes, I know, you're over emotional and won't accept that this happens, so you'll thumbs it down to the max simply because I won't give in to the idea you wish all men gave in to, that rainbows shine out of your ass)
I only read the 1st part cause this is so looonnngg lol but there are definately not more nice guys than douche bags out there!! Everyone now adays thinks they're fucking gangsters!
No, you just don't pay attention to the good guys, and a lot of the "douchebags" (not most, but a lot) are douchebags because they know girls go for them when they are.
If I was to go by your logic that you notice the douchebags more, therfor the majority are douchebags, then I can say the same about women, the mojority where slutty clothing to get attention.
Okay, let's agree on one thing- a lot of men act as douchebags to impress women, a lot of women dress like sluts to impress men. In reality, we could all be much happier if neither occurred. Both sluts and douchebags are, in many ways, created by the standards of the other gender.
Definetly, I agree. A lot of women and females do act that way, I will never dissagree with that, Saying the majority of them do, that is something I dissagree with.
I didn't thumb down your comment because I thought that you gave some valid points, and I didn't remove your comment because that would be censorship. However, I'd like to point out that this post was saying that I dislike how many guys use the friendzone as an excuse not to learn from their mistakes. A lot of douchebags that I've met consider themselves to be "nice guys." Whenever they (rightly) get rejected by a girl, instead of learning from their mistakes and becoming a better person for it, they use the same argument that you do- they blame the girl, who never had any romantic feelings for them anyway, and stay the same as they were before. And since they haven't learned to become better, they keep getting rejected, and keep refusing to change. This post did not talk about actual good guys, it talked about douchebags who consider themselves nice guys, even though they're not. After all, how can a man tell if he's really "nice" by a woman's standards? I'm fine with the concept of the friendzone, but I'm tired of it being used as an excuse.
Is it normal I don't like people who complain about the friendzone?
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There are far more nice guys than douchebags out there, the only difference is that the douchebags are noticed more, and yes, even chosen more, despite how you females want to brand your morality levels.
I find the whole "Guys that say they're good guys are actually douchebags" part just BS. You're trying to justify your choice of not picking nice guys over assholes by stating that the nice guys that claim to be nice guys are actually assholes.
I think it is completely acceptable and understandable why a guy will bring up the "friendzone" talk. I for one am sick of seeing so many nice guys interested in a girl, then when the girl that picked the douchebag over the majority of guys that were nice, she sits there screaming "Where are all the good guys? All men are pigs, men don't know how to love a girl. Where are all the good guys"...Well they're in the friendzone where she left them.
If a woman would preffer being friends with a guy, that is understandable, and I can understand that. What I absolutly hate is when a girl will reject someone, then say she's looking for a guy with certain qualities, and all the guys she rejected has all of those qualities, then she goes for a good looking asshole with none of the qualities.
It is actually irritating how the commenters have commented and this whole statement. This is just another fine example of how women can't take resposnibility for something they do wrong and bring on themselves, and it's one of the reasons why I have never tried to enter the whole relationship game.
Ugh. Women, grow up. Just because you pick the asshole, then realize that you picked the asshole when you friendzoned so many nicer guys doesn't make it right for you to use good guys as a scapegoat and say "Oh, well, erm, the good guys are assholes too! Yeah, yeah, that's why I picked the biggest asshole before I picked the good gu...Oops, I mean lesser assholes".
Grow up.
(Yes, I know, you're over emotional and won't accept that this happens, so you'll thumbs it down to the max simply because I won't give in to the idea you wish all men gave in to, that rainbows shine out of your ass)
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I only read the 1st part cause this is so looonnngg lol but there are definately not more nice guys than douche bags out there!! Everyone now adays thinks they're fucking gangsters!
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No, you just don't pay attention to the good guys, and a lot of the "douchebags" (not most, but a lot) are douchebags because they know girls go for them when they are.
If I was to go by your logic that you notice the douchebags more, therfor the majority are douchebags, then I can say the same about women, the mojority where slutty clothing to get attention.
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Okay, let's agree on one thing- a lot of men act as douchebags to impress women, a lot of women dress like sluts to impress men. In reality, we could all be much happier if neither occurred. Both sluts and douchebags are, in many ways, created by the standards of the other gender.
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I can agree to that. ItDuz it very self righteous lol You'll never win this. He's a mananist. Opposite of feminist xD
Definetly, I agree. A lot of women and females do act that way, I will never dissagree with that, Saying the majority of them do, that is something I dissagree with.
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A majority what? Dress like sluts? I never said that, I said that a disturbingly large number do.
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Sorry, I thought you were Ccjigsaw. I'm not paying much attention.
I didn't thumb down your comment because I thought that you gave some valid points, and I didn't remove your comment because that would be censorship. However, I'd like to point out that this post was saying that I dislike how many guys use the friendzone as an excuse not to learn from their mistakes. A lot of douchebags that I've met consider themselves to be "nice guys." Whenever they (rightly) get rejected by a girl, instead of learning from their mistakes and becoming a better person for it, they use the same argument that you do- they blame the girl, who never had any romantic feelings for them anyway, and stay the same as they were before. And since they haven't learned to become better, they keep getting rejected, and keep refusing to change. This post did not talk about actual good guys, it talked about douchebags who consider themselves nice guys, even though they're not. After all, how can a man tell if he's really "nice" by a woman's standards? I'm fine with the concept of the friendzone, but I'm tired of it being used as an excuse.
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In that case, in which the guys are definetly assholes, then I can agree with that.