I can see how it must suck to really like someone and have them turn around and say "I'm not going out with you... but I want to be friends so you have to see me every day just so you won't forget about me or get over me, and then I'll show off my next boyfriend to you and make you feel like crap".
But then again, wanting to be with a girl who would make you feel that terrible (either out of ignorance or malice) would make you a bit of an idiot :/
And then there's the other friendzoned guys who everyone else is talking about, who are arrogant, self-absorbed and probably deserve to be just where they are :P
Then again, maybe the girl feels just as bad but just can't help that she doesn't have feelings for the person. I'm sure we've all had a time in our lives when someone we had feelings for is in our group of friends, you have to get over that and be able to live with them. Nothing can make that not suck, but you can't make someone want to be with you either; and I know I'd rather not lose a friend over something like that, even if it's hard to be around them for a while.
I know usually when I see it online, it's guys who are arrogant, use all sorts of derogatory language and perpetuate gender stereotypes, are rude to women, and then turn around and whine about being frienzoned and forever alone. Reddit sucks.
Is it normal I don't like people who complain about the friendzone?
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Obviously it depends on the situation.
I can see how it must suck to really like someone and have them turn around and say "I'm not going out with you... but I want to be friends so you have to see me every day just so you won't forget about me or get over me, and then I'll show off my next boyfriend to you and make you feel like crap".
But then again, wanting to be with a girl who would make you feel that terrible (either out of ignorance or malice) would make you a bit of an idiot :/
And then there's the other friendzoned guys who everyone else is talking about, who are arrogant, self-absorbed and probably deserve to be just where they are :P
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Then again, maybe the girl feels just as bad but just can't help that she doesn't have feelings for the person. I'm sure we've all had a time in our lives when someone we had feelings for is in our group of friends, you have to get over that and be able to live with them. Nothing can make that not suck, but you can't make someone want to be with you either; and I know I'd rather not lose a friend over something like that, even if it's hard to be around them for a while.
I know usually when I see it online, it's guys who are arrogant, use all sorts of derogatory language and perpetuate gender stereotypes, are rude to women, and then turn around and whine about being frienzoned and forever alone. Reddit sucks.