Are you scared? You call yourself a "repressed lesbian", can you please expand on that?
Do you repress your sexuality due to fear of not being accepted by your peers and/or family or fear of maybe inadequacy? If you do, then I get you completely. I have liked one single person for most of my life, yet any sexual thought of that person doesn't make me feel any good because of the aforementioned fears. I think until I tackle my fears, I won't ever be sexual.
P.S., I am exceptionally good at acting hypersexual in front of my peers. I can make appearances seem exceptionally real.
Another possible explanation: you may be a "late bloomer".
I try to do things, I try to be a little bit more flirty with the people I like, but I can't. And I'm not a shy person in general, just in that context. Perhaps it's because I'm not trying for myself, but for them. It's something I can do to make them feel better or confortable.
I guess fear is part of it, of course. I don't know if I would call myself asexual. I don't know how sex it's like, and it's not my priority really.
The fact is that I don't like people sexually, at least for now, and it's unconfortable because most of people does, at first instance.
Is it normal I don't like people sexually?
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Are you scared? You call yourself a "repressed lesbian", can you please expand on that?
Do you repress your sexuality due to fear of not being accepted by your peers and/or family or fear of maybe inadequacy? If you do, then I get you completely. I have liked one single person for most of my life, yet any sexual thought of that person doesn't make me feel any good because of the aforementioned fears. I think until I tackle my fears, I won't ever be sexual.
P.S., I am exceptionally good at acting hypersexual in front of my peers. I can make appearances seem exceptionally real.
Another possible explanation: you may be a "late bloomer".
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I try to do things, I try to be a little bit more flirty with the people I like, but I can't. And I'm not a shy person in general, just in that context. Perhaps it's because I'm not trying for myself, but for them. It's something I can do to make them feel better or confortable.
I guess fear is part of it, of course. I don't know if I would call myself asexual. I don't know how sex it's like, and it's not my priority really.
The fact is that I don't like people sexually, at least for now, and it's unconfortable because most of people does, at first instance.