I could actually believe that, I mean really that actually seems like what the OP describes and I think what a lot of people who claim to be asexual probably describe.
As for the whole wanting physical contact but not in a sexual way I find interesting. Cause like in some ways I can understand what you mean, like you want someone to hold you, it doesn't have to be sexual. I've felt that way sometimes, but I've never actually had a friend comfort me in that way. From the sound of it, it seems like you perhaps are demisexual. Although I personally don't know the different types of sexualities that exist nor do I really know what it means to be like any of those said sexualities. But based on googling what demisexuals are and how you act it seems like a proper term to describe your sexual identity. I wish that society didn't put a sexual stigma on physical contact either. Because honestly what you describe, like the whole enjoying things like hugs for comfort reasons is something that I've felt a need for a times. I mean I love it when I get a hug from a friend, there's something about that physical contact that feels, I don't know like home? Honestly we all need a hug every now and then.
I wish more people didn't stigmatize physical contact as all being sexual. To me it seems society has brainwashed us to think that it usually is. I do enjoy sex as well but it's more of a primitive desire for me than anything. I'm also quite picky and it's usually not worth the effort to me. I know I do not have standard feelings on how sex and relationships work. The only part that makes it difficult for me is that I am in a society that conforms differently.
I've also noticed people think of massages as sexually. I don't get why pleasureful physical contact is usually though of as sexual. Honestly men give better massages and I'm not even gay. It's just how it usually is.
I hate that if I want a massage females think of it as a sexual advance, straight men think it's gay, and gay men get the wrong impression.
I just want someone to rub the fucking knots out of my back so I can relax better without paying $50 at the mall.
I've never really craved a massage but I get what you mean. Something that is suppose to be thought of as relaxing has been turned into an act of sexual prowess.
Honestly society has weird notions of sex. I mean just in general look at how bodies are seen. I mean if you love your body that's great, but you can't show it off otherwise you're seen as shameful for doing so. But really what's the harm in loving your body and wanting to show it off in public, like wearing tight fitting cloth to accentuate your curves. I like the way you look at relationships, it seems like you're more honest about what you desires than most people I know.
Is it normal I don't like people sexually?
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I could actually believe that, I mean really that actually seems like what the OP describes and I think what a lot of people who claim to be asexual probably describe.
As for the whole wanting physical contact but not in a sexual way I find interesting. Cause like in some ways I can understand what you mean, like you want someone to hold you, it doesn't have to be sexual. I've felt that way sometimes, but I've never actually had a friend comfort me in that way. From the sound of it, it seems like you perhaps are demisexual. Although I personally don't know the different types of sexualities that exist nor do I really know what it means to be like any of those said sexualities. But based on googling what demisexuals are and how you act it seems like a proper term to describe your sexual identity. I wish that society didn't put a sexual stigma on physical contact either. Because honestly what you describe, like the whole enjoying things like hugs for comfort reasons is something that I've felt a need for a times. I mean I love it when I get a hug from a friend, there's something about that physical contact that feels, I don't know like home? Honestly we all need a hug every now and then.
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I wish more people didn't stigmatize physical contact as all being sexual. To me it seems society has brainwashed us to think that it usually is. I do enjoy sex as well but it's more of a primitive desire for me than anything. I'm also quite picky and it's usually not worth the effort to me. I know I do not have standard feelings on how sex and relationships work. The only part that makes it difficult for me is that I am in a society that conforms differently.
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I've also noticed people think of massages as sexually. I don't get why pleasureful physical contact is usually though of as sexual. Honestly men give better massages and I'm not even gay. It's just how it usually is.
I hate that if I want a massage females think of it as a sexual advance, straight men think it's gay, and gay men get the wrong impression.
I just want someone to rub the fucking knots out of my back so I can relax better without paying $50 at the mall.
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I've never really craved a massage but I get what you mean. Something that is suppose to be thought of as relaxing has been turned into an act of sexual prowess.
Honestly society has weird notions of sex. I mean just in general look at how bodies are seen. I mean if you love your body that's great, but you can't show it off otherwise you're seen as shameful for doing so. But really what's the harm in loving your body and wanting to show it off in public, like wearing tight fitting cloth to accentuate your curves. I like the way you look at relationships, it seems like you're more honest about what you desires than most people I know.