I know what you mean. It seem's there are countless people around to have a laugh with but true friendship, with someone you really care for is for me at least a rare thing. I shut myself away a little after high school, partly due to my growing insecurities and partly because of the reason you described. I regret it though. Untill the past few months I only had 1 true friend because of it, I lost contact with my high school group. Last week I was in a club and saw one of my old mates we got talking and he was saying that he missed hanging out and that I had always been a friend he'd felt close to. I of course had no idea. Maby these friends care more than you think. Also the way you do get closer to people is by hanging out with them in an environment outside of the norm (school work ect). So say my previous thought was wrong and the friendships are a little hollow, go out and make them stronger, that doesn't happen by sitting around it happens by hanging out and having fun, so have fun. You might regret it later otherwise, trust me :)
IIN I don't have any real friends.
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I know what you mean. It seem's there are countless people around to have a laugh with but true friendship, with someone you really care for is for me at least a rare thing. I shut myself away a little after high school, partly due to my growing insecurities and partly because of the reason you described. I regret it though. Untill the past few months I only had 1 true friend because of it, I lost contact with my high school group. Last week I was in a club and saw one of my old mates we got talking and he was saying that he missed hanging out and that I had always been a friend he'd felt close to. I of course had no idea. Maby these friends care more than you think. Also the way you do get closer to people is by hanging out with them in an environment outside of the norm (school work ect). So say my previous thought was wrong and the friendships are a little hollow, go out and make them stronger, that doesn't happen by sitting around it happens by hanging out and having fun, so have fun. You might regret it later otherwise, trust me :)