Is it normal i don't get wet anymore?

So, my ex has been on my mind a lot lately, because I kissed him and talked with him for a little time while in my current relationship.
I noticed I have experienced trouble getting wet with my bf lately and he noticed as well.
I couldn't think of the reason way, however I started putting the two things together (me kissing my ex in December and me not getting wet or just a little with my bf) and I noticed the "wet problem" started approximately after that moment with my ex.
I have to admit I've been reminiscing a lot about my ex and all the things related to him and it has been hard not to confess to my bf about that kiss and that talk.
I KNOW, I am a cheating whore and I deserve all the bad in this world, I get it.
All I am asking is if those two things may be related, or if it could be something related to a disease I have been diagnosed, which causes me to have dry eyes, that may be expanding ( docs told me it could happen) .

Is It Normal?
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  • Seems to me a rousing bout of cunnilingus would solve the problem

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  • I'm glad that you are experiencing guilt and shame.

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    • Yeah I am not proud of what I did

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      • Well, at least you have a moral compass, which is much better than many people. I also think it's best that you not confess about this to your partner.

        I personally think you ought to find a way to make a living amends to your parther, and you can start with the purchase of a good quality lubricant.

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      • A dry vagina is a common symptom of shame and guilt.

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  • You have nothing to be guilty about. If your not married, you can have sex with whoever you like.

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  • Please don't cheat, it's not nice.

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  • Ky jelly.

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  • Lube up that pussy before u start slide sum in with ur finger before he comes in room then get fucking

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  • When you get older the vag dries out a bit. I don't know how old you are,but if you are in your 30's and up,that could be why.

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  • Buy some lube from the sexual health shelf at your local store. Squirt some into your vagina. Give your boyfriend the ride of his life. *Sigh*. Now your life will be brighter.

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    • I did buy lube and I told him I bought it and I was ready to use it because I love him and I do love having sex with him, but he got super embarrassed and I ended up putting it without telling him

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      • Good for you. You took charge, and the plot thickened during the night. You sound very desirable and yummy.

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  • If you were diagnosed with Sjogrens it can be connected and you need to let your doctor know about the vaginal dryness.

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    • They didn't say sjogrens but it was an immune disease that they suspected. Now I am treating it with artificial tears.

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      • Sjogrens is an “immune disease” that can spread. Let your GYN or GP know about the newest development as soon as you can.

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  • I do not condone cheating in any ay. But I am curious.....if you were to masturbate while fantasizing about your ex do you get wet? Is it worth it to you go have another sexual encounter with your ex to test your theory? I am no medical expert so I can not say for certain if it related to the dry eyes.

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    • I would say my ex gets me very horny, when I masturbate he pops in my mind very often.
      I don't want to cheat again honestly, I do love my bf a lot.

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      • You can always look at it this way - You cheated, there's nothing you can do about it now so do your best with your current relationship. No one is perfect and if I were you I'd keep the whole cheating part behind you and not let it happen again as long as you're with someone else. Maybe this can make you work and try harder with your current relationship as your penance for cheating! lol. Seriously, it's a big deal, but not an ender always.

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        • I am trying to do just what you said, however it is not simple. I mean, I try to forget but I just feel so bad sometimes! I know it is literally nothing,just a kiss and a couple of texts, but I keep thinking that my bf would never do it and I did. I don't want to loose him, I know it sounds selfish, but I will keep trying to forget and redeem myself.

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  • It's more likely your guilt is causing it than your ex.

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