You're a better man than I; I am a musician, I tend to have body language while playing that can appear feminine (if the music demands it) and for me, I don't care, EXCEPT the one time my family thought I was gay because I had some gay friends (and one sister still thinks I am, she thinks one of my straight roomies back in the day was gay and that we slept together) and THAT pisses me off, not because of the gay thing, but because they don't even KNOW me enough to know it's not true, they don't know how many times I damn near committed suicide over women that turned me down (when I was young).
Is it normal I don't care if people think I am gay or effeminate?
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You're a better man than I; I am a musician, I tend to have body language while playing that can appear feminine (if the music demands it) and for me, I don't care, EXCEPT the one time my family thought I was gay because I had some gay friends (and one sister still thinks I am, she thinks one of my straight roomies back in the day was gay and that we slept together) and THAT pisses me off, not because of the gay thing, but because they don't even KNOW me enough to know it's not true, they don't know how many times I damn near committed suicide over women that turned me down (when I was young).