Is it normal i don’t get turned on

I’m 18 and a female and I just never have any interest in guys. My friends will swoon over guys flexing and being hot and I just can’t help but find it kinda funny/awkward. I never get crushes and I think it’s be cool to have a boyfriend but it really sounds unappealing for him to want to touch me and kiss me and all that. It kinda bothers me I’m single sometimes but I never put in the effort to get with a guy anyway so it makes sense.
All “sexy situations” I just find funny or cringey or just too serious(?)
I don’t know, just has been bumming me out lately. I want to want a guy.

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  • Tealights

    You're either asexual: No sexual attraction ever.

    Or you're demisexual: You need to develop a bond first to get those feelings.

    I know it sucks to have a label for it especially with bisexual, pansexual, transsexual, and more new ones appearing daily, but let this one be a comfort since it's common enough to have a name and been so for a while.

    My only advice, whether you're asexual or demi, don't just agree to relationships just because a boy ask or confesses his feelings (it's what I did, because I was like, "Mmk, I'll try this out."). You'll waste so much time and get pressured into too much shit. Instead, get to know him first or approach guys you think are worth getting to know as a friend. If a boy does approach you (or you find him) and he gets impatient or want sex asap, then point him to the nearest hoe (every school has one) and move on.

    At the end of the day, you're not weird, your requirements are just different.

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  • EternallyHis

    You could be asexual... Not sure how legit that is, but maybe you just have a lower sex drive than most people?

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  • Handyman

    A male friend could help you to be friends only, sex is not the only reason to be with a male.

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  • It sounds like you may be asexual.

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  • sissycakes

    basically i am the same way. i am mentally with guys, but in actuality would hate to be intimate.

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  • sissycakes

    it is called being asexual. i am not wanting to do anything intimate with anyone either. it just seems so wrong and dirty.

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  • dogwoofwoof

    Maybe you're lesbian?

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  • hellodare

    Same here girl, don't worry too much about it. In the end, you'll be better off then all the other girls that only think about guys and crush on all of them :)

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  • libertybell

    It's o.k. Some people just aren't into sex.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I certainly think that a person shouldn't be defined by his, or her relationship status.

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  • paramore93

    Same, I'm not sexually attracted to anybody but still have a boyfriend. You can be asexual and still have a relationship. Maybe you just haven't found the right guy yet. It's still okay if you don't want anybody though, don't force it. :]

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  • drat

    Same, I love guys but I’m not sexually attracted to them, would love an asexual bf but it seems very rare. I would probably have sex if we’re super close emotionally and they wanted it tho

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