Is it normal i didn’t respond ?
I’m struggling to get a boyfriend. It’s bugging me, because I’m getting older nearly 24.... and never done anything with a boy apart from kissing. And my first kiss was this year! So I’ve dated a few this year and it’s all so new to me. I’m shy, and introverted but I am putting myself out there as best I can.
I do have anxiety to which I think sometimes holds me back a little. So I had a second great date with this boy... he drove me home and we sat in his car and chatted for an hour! Before I got out haha. He placed his hand on my leg, and me being me did nothing I just kept talking, it was like I couldn’t move my hand onto his... it was nice though. I felt bad afterwards but we did have a nice kiss before I left, and he said he’d see me again.
That week was fine we were texting as normal, both busy the day we usually meet up so we didn’t, I asked if he’d like to see me the following week and he said ‘there’s no point in dating if we aren’t going to see each other’
There was a lot more said than that. But all I can think is it was my fault because he placed his hand on my leg and I didn’t respond. But to me 2 dates is a little early to be leaving someone because they didn’t touch you back. Then again this is all new to me and I don’t understand you men for one second.
FYI. He wasn’t looking for a fling. And he did speak to me normal the following week. But was it my fault he left?
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