Intellectually, I did understand that, but I also felt what I felt.
Over the years, there were occasional hints that something unpleasant had happened with a man when she was a child, and I knew that a couple of her adult relationships with guys were difficult (at the very least), but she kept a wall up around those things. She clearly didn't want to talk about them, and I didn't push it.
Like I said, I think it's sad she was never able to be more accepting of her body and her sexuality. She accomplished quite a bit in her life, but she wasn't able to fully and freely experience that aspect of being human.
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Intellectually, I did understand that, but I also felt what I felt.
Over the years, there were occasional hints that something unpleasant had happened with a man when she was a child, and I knew that a couple of her adult relationships with guys were difficult (at the very least), but she kept a wall up around those things. She clearly didn't want to talk about them, and I didn't push it.
Like I said, I think it's sad she was never able to be more accepting of her body and her sexuality. She accomplished quite a bit in her life, but she wasn't able to fully and freely experience that aspect of being human.
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For you and your second wife, congrats on sticking to the vow of "til death do you part". That doesn't happen as often as it should these days