Ok, don't for a second think anybody is fooled that you have lusted for another man in your head, be it someone you've seen in real life or on television. You know you have, we know you have, don't treat others as fools. You don't live up to your own standard because nobody can.
It's normal to lust/think about another person sexually, we are jist wired like that, the only shame that comes of it is if you're inconsiderate about it and/or act on it.
No, it's not "sexual objectification", believe it or not but when most guys, unless you're a psychopath, thinks of a woman or man sexually they see them as *sexually attractive PEOPLE*
Yes, your partner has thought of other women sexually, just like you have with the men. If you consider that as, "cheating" then good luck on your current and future relationships you feel the need to sabotage.
Sorry but I'm demisexual. It would be impossible for me to lust after someone unless I formed a bond w/ them first.
I can respect the fact that humans are sexual animals but you have to put that aside once you're in a relationship.
Well excuse my skepticism in that identification, but that's irrelevant.
That's a "you" issue. You have to accept the average way people are or stop being in relationships with thé general man, otherwise you're going to sabotage your own relationships and/or have the guy you're with get fed up.
I don't want to be in a relationship with someone that will just stare at other women when he has a girlfriend. How is that unfair?
No girl would ever want their boyfriend to treat other women like sexual objects and pretend like their girlfriend's feelings don't matter!
If they're not being discrete when checking some out then they're doing it wrong. Obviously you don't want your partner noticing you're doing it so that you spare their feelings but the act itself of doing it is natural, there will be people more physically attractive than you.
Can we just get past the sexual objects speech? Ive already said to you that it isn't sexual objectification, it's being sexually attracted to a person.
If a man or woman is rubbing it in your face that they prefer another woman then yeah, Thata wrong, but checking out others while sparing your partners feelings is normal.
Men do it, women do it, it's normal. You need to work on getting over this.
IIN I consider lusting as cheating?
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Ok, don't for a second think anybody is fooled that you have lusted for another man in your head, be it someone you've seen in real life or on television. You know you have, we know you have, don't treat others as fools. You don't live up to your own standard because nobody can.
It's normal to lust/think about another person sexually, we are jist wired like that, the only shame that comes of it is if you're inconsiderate about it and/or act on it.
No, it's not "sexual objectification", believe it or not but when most guys, unless you're a psychopath, thinks of a woman or man sexually they see them as *sexually attractive PEOPLE*
Yes, your partner has thought of other women sexually, just like you have with the men. If you consider that as, "cheating" then good luck on your current and future relationships you feel the need to sabotage.
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Sorry but I'm demisexual. It would be impossible for me to lust after someone unless I formed a bond w/ them first.
I can respect the fact that humans are sexual animals but you have to put that aside once you're in a relationship.
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Well excuse my skepticism in that identification, but that's irrelevant.
That's a "you" issue. You have to accept the average way people are or stop being in relationships with thé general man, otherwise you're going to sabotage your own relationships and/or have the guy you're with get fed up.
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I don't want to be in a relationship with someone that will just stare at other women when he has a girlfriend. How is that unfair?
No girl would ever want their boyfriend to treat other women like sexual objects and pretend like their girlfriend's feelings don't matter!
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If they're not being discrete when checking some out then they're doing it wrong. Obviously you don't want your partner noticing you're doing it so that you spare their feelings but the act itself of doing it is natural, there will be people more physically attractive than you.
Can we just get past the sexual objects speech? Ive already said to you that it isn't sexual objectification, it's being sexually attracted to a person.
If a man or woman is rubbing it in your face that they prefer another woman then yeah, Thata wrong, but checking out others while sparing your partners feelings is normal.
Men do it, women do it, it's normal. You need to work on getting over this.