Just keep in mind..It works both ways. You may see some guy and have those same thoughts. Just don't act on them, or be disrespectful to your guy.
I was dating a woman for awhile. We did well together, were a very good match, and I found her beautiful inside and out. However, if we went out and drank, forget it..She'd get all flirty with other guys right in front of me, let guys buy her drinks, and when I'd touch her or interjected, either shut me out or put a stop to it. One night, we were at a micro-brew pub, and she was telling the bouncer how much she "liked his ink". This continued, to the point I told her, quite seriously "Then let him pay OUR bill and get your home. I'm about to leave". Suddenly, attention was back on me from her.
YET..IF I even mentioned another woman's name, or met with a female from my business group, I got the third degree and hell from her. I always wanted to take her out somewhere, and chat up some hot young woman just to see what my flirty gf would do.
Men are way more likely to cheat than women. As a woman, I have to be careful in my relationships (not to mention one in four women are going to be sexually assaulted.)
I don't even see it as sex objects..I see it as disrespect to who you're with. You in a relationship for a reason, and it's not to have the other person lust after or even give the hint of offering up themselves to someone else.
IIN I consider lusting as cheating?
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Just keep in mind..It works both ways. You may see some guy and have those same thoughts. Just don't act on them, or be disrespectful to your guy.
I was dating a woman for awhile. We did well together, were a very good match, and I found her beautiful inside and out. However, if we went out and drank, forget it..She'd get all flirty with other guys right in front of me, let guys buy her drinks, and when I'd touch her or interjected, either shut me out or put a stop to it. One night, we were at a micro-brew pub, and she was telling the bouncer how much she "liked his ink". This continued, to the point I told her, quite seriously "Then let him pay OUR bill and get your home. I'm about to leave". Suddenly, attention was back on me from her.
YET..IF I even mentioned another woman's name, or met with a female from my business group, I got the third degree and hell from her. I always wanted to take her out somewhere, and chat up some hot young woman just to see what my flirty gf would do.
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Of course I wouldn't do something like that.
It would be unfair to treat men the same way they treat women, that's not right.
(As sex objects.)
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You sound like you don't actually like or trust men in general, OP.
I'd work on that if you want a successful relationship with one.
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Men are way more likely to cheat than women. As a woman, I have to be careful in my relationships (not to mention one in four women are going to be sexually assaulted.)
I don't even see it as sex objects..I see it as disrespect to who you're with. You in a relationship for a reason, and it's not to have the other person lust after or even give the hint of offering up themselves to someone else.