Lol. It's a nice sentient that the P.O. thinks that way but it's unrealistic. You can love another person for 20 years and then 1 day you look at another woman for 3 seconds too long and all that love suddenly disappears? No, it's not cheating unless they do envision or try to act on it. Yes its wrong to treat a woman as a sex object but that's not why all men and woman look at each other. And YES, it goes both ways
Unrealistic indeed. It's human nature to see people, regardless of reason behind it. We have eyes, therefore we look. Harmless, usually. Too many people get too jealous. Ugh.
Of course if the SO acts upon urges towards a lovely person, that's cheating. But looking and or thinking/fantasising??? No.
But isn't lusting showing that there is something that they think is lacking in their partner??
Like if you looked at a woman because she has bigger breasts than your girlfriend. It is unfair to the partner because you are thinking of her as inadequate in a way she can't change.
It just perpetuates the insecurities of women everywhere and shows how much beauty standards hurt women so much.
No it's not. It doesn't mean they are lacking anything you want. Sometimes it's the opposite and you see what you DONT like and Remember how greatful you are to be with the One. Just because a guy stares at a woman doesnt mean he is lusting after her. Most of the time that's a false assumption. Yes we all have insecurities but real men know that what's on the inside usually matters more than what's on the outside
IIN I consider lusting as cheating?
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Lol. It's a nice sentient that the P.O. thinks that way but it's unrealistic. You can love another person for 20 years and then 1 day you look at another woman for 3 seconds too long and all that love suddenly disappears? No, it's not cheating unless they do envision or try to act on it. Yes its wrong to treat a woman as a sex object but that's not why all men and woman look at each other. And YES, it goes both ways
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Unrealistic indeed. It's human nature to see people, regardless of reason behind it. We have eyes, therefore we look. Harmless, usually. Too many people get too jealous. Ugh.
Of course if the SO acts upon urges towards a lovely person, that's cheating. But looking and or thinking/fantasising??? No.
OP needs to get a grip
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Agreed.
But isn't lusting showing that there is something that they think is lacking in their partner??
Like if you looked at a woman because she has bigger breasts than your girlfriend. It is unfair to the partner because you are thinking of her as inadequate in a way she can't change.
It just perpetuates the insecurities of women everywhere and shows how much beauty standards hurt women so much.
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No it's not. It doesn't mean they are lacking anything you want. Sometimes it's the opposite and you see what you DONT like and Remember how greatful you are to be with the One. Just because a guy stares at a woman doesnt mean he is lusting after her. Most of the time that's a false assumption. Yes we all have insecurities but real men know that what's on the inside usually matters more than what's on the outside