And what about masturbation? Do you achieve orgasm when you stimulate your genitals yourself? It may be important to know because it is a different situation if you are able to orgasm during masturbation but not with your husband or if your orgasms disappeared completely - i.e. you had orgasms before with your husband as well as during masturbation and now you are not able to achieve orgasm neither during self-stimulation nor with your husband.
Has he done anything to disappoint or disturb you lately? You might just be shutting down mentally from other things in life too or him. Idk all your situation. But def is wise to always have good communication between you two and to work it out, if its something boggling you down mentally or him not keeping or getting you horny enough to cum. If he isn't hitting your clit enough, not playing with and licking / sucking your nipples, etc that really helps get you to cum tell / explain to him. Using a toy like a cock ring with clit vibrator stubs or a vibrator, etc will enhance and get you to orgasm too. Tell him you like when he kisses you when your getting fucked by him and that hes rushing too fast if you feel its the main reason.
Is it normal i cant have an orgasm with my husband?
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We always foreplay and yes I orgasmed before we got married and he stimulates me manually.
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And what about masturbation? Do you achieve orgasm when you stimulate your genitals yourself? It may be important to know because it is a different situation if you are able to orgasm during masturbation but not with your husband or if your orgasms disappeared completely - i.e. you had orgasms before with your husband as well as during masturbation and now you are not able to achieve orgasm neither during self-stimulation nor with your husband.
Has he done anything to disappoint or disturb you lately? You might just be shutting down mentally from other things in life too or him. Idk all your situation. But def is wise to always have good communication between you two and to work it out, if its something boggling you down mentally or him not keeping or getting you horny enough to cum. If he isn't hitting your clit enough, not playing with and licking / sucking your nipples, etc that really helps get you to cum tell / explain to him. Using a toy like a cock ring with clit vibrator stubs or a vibrator, etc will enhance and get you to orgasm too. Tell him you like when he kisses you when your getting fucked by him and that hes rushing too fast if you feel its the main reason.