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is it normal i am absolutely awful at giving my boyfriend a blow job. my last boyfriend was never interested in it so me only ever had sex. but my current boyfriend wants me to try give him a blowjob alot. every time i try to i just don't know what to do and end up choking and having to stop because it gives him no pleasure at all. i feel like it annoys him and i wish i was able to for him
Wahhh... I hate how this is "Not normal." I'm totally in the same boat... Ever since I was a kid I had an over active gag reflex. When I went to the dentist they had to numb my mouth cause I gagged so much. *sigh* The irony that i'd have a bf that's wants them mor ethan anything else is a bummer cause, der, I'm terrible at them to. You're not alone
As a grown up guy if I had a girlfriend not able to make it should be a huge problem. It hapened to me once years ago and that helped the relation to finish. People can say if you really love someone you can overtake the problem. Yes, for a wile its possible but just for a wile.
Some girls feel like vomiting wile they do it. Its very embarassing for us.
Talk to him and ask him to be pacient. Try to it as much as you can, we need that all the time.
You can say what so ever about guys but without that most probably, we look for it outside the relationship.
I have a difficult time performing oral for my husband because my top two front teeth are bent inward a little and they tend to scrape him. I have to open up really wide to avoid hurting him, but I end up hurting my jaw instead. I'm not a damn snake and I'm not dislocating my jaw anytime soon, so I don't perform oral for him very often.
Until I get my teeth fixed, he can just get over it, I guess.
If YOU want to get better at it, you're just going to have to practice. That is, IF you want to. If you don't, don't.