i cant understand why you are angry, i would be too. i dont agree that after everything youve done for her shes not happy to help you out. but i think for the sake of yourself and your husband you just have to move past it. i dont think you should ever have to ever lend her any money or help her out like that again but i do think this is hurting you more than her. by the sound of it, youre the one who misses out on things because of her and who is being hurt/angered by the situation and its not making her feel bad at all. you deserve to be in your own living room whenever you want to be and not have to hide out. i think you should forgive her for yourself, so its not something that weighs you down or troubles you. but in term of her; i dont think you have to ever be overly nice or offer to help ever again, just show your self and your husband that you can be the bigger person.
Is it normal i cant forgive her?
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i cant understand why you are angry, i would be too. i dont agree that after everything youve done for her shes not happy to help you out. but i think for the sake of yourself and your husband you just have to move past it. i dont think you should ever have to ever lend her any money or help her out like that again but i do think this is hurting you more than her. by the sound of it, youre the one who misses out on things because of her and who is being hurt/angered by the situation and its not making her feel bad at all. you deserve to be in your own living room whenever you want to be and not have to hide out. i think you should forgive her for yourself, so its not something that weighs you down or troubles you. but in term of her; i dont think you have to ever be overly nice or offer to help ever again, just show your self and your husband that you can be the bigger person.