in short you need to decide what type of man you want to spend your life with and not settle for less than this . I would advise you to communicate your emotions with him and set a firm position on it ( kindly ) no need to yell it at him but if he doesn't respect your feelings enough to work with you to achieve balance back in the relationship well .. he is selfish and living a one sided life . You need to remove your thought pattern from your emotions ( you have been with him , have an attachment ) so when it's time to leave you will always naturally have doubts but you need to think of the bigger picture .. your life with this man , is it the one you want , will it make you happy inside , will you both be happy together ...and will the good far overwhelm the bad because everyone has disputes .. its how we deal with them and how often they occur that make a difference . The best advice I can give is to stop procrastinating , stop wasting each others time .. decide what you want , what you will live and love for ... and address this now .
I hope it works out , regardless the end result . keep us updated .
Iin i cant decide if i want to stay or leave him?
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in short you need to decide what type of man you want to spend your life with and not settle for less than this . I would advise you to communicate your emotions with him and set a firm position on it ( kindly ) no need to yell it at him but if he doesn't respect your feelings enough to work with you to achieve balance back in the relationship well .. he is selfish and living a one sided life . You need to remove your thought pattern from your emotions ( you have been with him , have an attachment ) so when it's time to leave you will always naturally have doubts but you need to think of the bigger picture .. your life with this man , is it the one you want , will it make you happy inside , will you both be happy together ...and will the good far overwhelm the bad because everyone has disputes .. its how we deal with them and how often they occur that make a difference . The best advice I can give is to stop procrastinating , stop wasting each others time .. decide what you want , what you will live and love for ... and address this now .
I hope it works out , regardless the end result . keep us updated .