Is it normal I cannot tell when a girl is trying to flirt with me?

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  • That is what I always do is just be myself. I'm not into acting anyways because it's unnatural and fake.
    That's not quite the problem though and I don't seem to have trouble making friends.
    The problem I have is I am unable to distinguish between which girls are into me and which ones aren't.
    This causes me to make advances toward the wrong girls and come off as "creepy" while at the same time I miss opportunities with girls that like me because I didn't notice. Its been pointed out to me that I over look girls that other people later tell me "she was obviously into you".

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    • I know that can be seen as misleading, but to me it's kind of silly. If a girl is into you, she should tell you in a more clear manner. You can't read their minds, right? So don't act like you can. Like I said, just act normally and when the time is right maybe the right girl will tell you how she feels. Or if you're really are eagerly know...why not ask the girl yourself? We're all human and rejection is a part of life so, take a chance because...you only live once (I'm so sorry).

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      • I agree. It seems like a lot of people like to send mixed signals for some reason.

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