I'm not a lesbian or a guy but I've got some trust issues with other women. I had a bad experience with some female friends last year and although I've completely separated myself from them I still have issues. There's a certain manipulative type that is similar to my mom and sister that is über toxic for me. Until I realized it was an awful pattern of me being around a certain type of person I was unwittingly drawn to that type. I believe people(myself included) do this in an effort to fix unresolved issues from childhood. I don't generally have these types of problems with men because my relationship with my father is not like that. There are plenty of males I don't get along with but I'm not drawn to them because they don't remind me of my father. In fact I'm repelled by manipulative and controlling males.
is it normal i can't trust the female gender?
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I'm not a lesbian or a guy but I've got some trust issues with other women. I had a bad experience with some female friends last year and although I've completely separated myself from them I still have issues. There's a certain manipulative type that is similar to my mom and sister that is über toxic for me. Until I realized it was an awful pattern of me being around a certain type of person I was unwittingly drawn to that type. I believe people(myself included) do this in an effort to fix unresolved issues from childhood. I don't generally have these types of problems with men because my relationship with my father is not like that. There are plenty of males I don't get along with but I'm not drawn to them because they don't remind me of my father. In fact I'm repelled by manipulative and controlling males.