First off, we are all who we are and life would be so much more pleasant if we could just be happy with ourselves, at least how we look.
That said, I've always been about 20 pounds over what I think I should weigh and over the last 50 odd years it has been a roller coaster battle, for no real reason other than vanity.
In your case, perhaps a bit of time in a gym would help you get a little shapeliness. You could definitely increase the muscles in your legs, arms and torso if you wanted, but it might take a whole lot more work than you want to put into such a superficial thing as looks. A tan works wonders as does just being happy and confident.
I really wish this was a visual medium sometimes, because it's difficult to make suggestions on looks without seeing what we are talking about, but I'm quite sure that others do not see you as you do.
I am 66, with white hair, a bit overweight as I said and do not think of myself as much to look at, but I have a very attractive 25 year old girlfriend who thinks I am handsome and sexy; silly girl.
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First off, we are all who we are and life would be so much more pleasant if we could just be happy with ourselves, at least how we look.
That said, I've always been about 20 pounds over what I think I should weigh and over the last 50 odd years it has been a roller coaster battle, for no real reason other than vanity.
In your case, perhaps a bit of time in a gym would help you get a little shapeliness. You could definitely increase the muscles in your legs, arms and torso if you wanted, but it might take a whole lot more work than you want to put into such a superficial thing as looks. A tan works wonders as does just being happy and confident.
I really wish this was a visual medium sometimes, because it's difficult to make suggestions on looks without seeing what we are talking about, but I'm quite sure that others do not see you as you do.
I am 66, with white hair, a bit overweight as I said and do not think of myself as much to look at, but I have a very attractive 25 year old girlfriend who thinks I am handsome and sexy; silly girl.