Is it normal i can't orgasm? [female]

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Okay well, no. Actually it's worse than that.

I can't feel, and never have been able to feel anything 'nice' down there. NEVERMIND an orgasm.

Like, don't get me wrong. I'm not completely numb or anything, I can feel being touched but it just feels like being touched anywhere else on my body. It's so frustrating and I can't help but feel like I'm missing out, as well as feeling mean to my partner since I get bored in sex and don't do it as often as he'd like. :I

Please don't tell me that my boyfriend and I just "aren't doing it right". I've tried everything and I'm pretty damn sure its not as simple as that, sadly. I'm 20, and have never been shy about exploring my body. I don't have any history of sexual abuse or anything like that either.

Tell me, am I just one of those really unlucky girls? Is this healthy and normal?

Or is this something I should ask a doctor about? Do you think anything can be done to help me?

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    8 years ago

    You need instant orgasm fungus.

    ... it's a real thing.

    http://www.you-tracker.com/Result/this-fungus-can-instantly-induce-orgasm-in-female/c21fcb7d-9fd5-4404-b9a3-298d0d5d20cc

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Oh my god. I need some of those mushrooms.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Maybe you have some nerve damage of which you're unaware?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Yeah, that's what I've been wondering about. Trouble is, I feel so awkward asking a doctor or anyone about it. Like, how do I even bring that up?

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      • KingTermite
        8 years ago

        Probably best to just swallow he pride or whatever is keeping you from being medically examined. The nerve damage hypothesis sounds like it may have some merit.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          Mostly embarrassment I think. I know doctors have heard everything already but it still feels strange and wrong revealing something so intimate to a complete stranger.

          It's different on here, because I don't have to face anyone in person, and can be annonoymous!

          So when the doctor says "so how can I help you?" or whatever, how would you suggest I start out / phrase it?

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          • KingTermite
            8 years ago

            I'd just explain the problem as clinically as I could. Maybe it would help to go to a doctor you don't normally go to, and barring the need for return treatments for the same issue, never go to that doctor again. Just the idea that you'll not have to face them again might help.

            Other than that, I really don't know how to go about it. I'm not at all shy about showing off the gifts that were bestowed on me, so I'm out of my depth, so to speak, on this matter.

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  • _Crusades
    8 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with you. You just haven't met a guy like me yet. I'm known for giving earth shattering orgasms to women who thought they were frigid their whole life.

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