The good thing is men have finally started to see the light that the "American dream" is really just a dream and not reality. Sadly plenty of men paid dearly for their beliefs, thankfully I'm not one of them. I do my best to give any men I can solid advice as to what marriage really is today. You end up getting labeled as "bitter", but it's the reality of what society is. Too many guys (who have a lot to lose) have no idea what they're getting themselves into today.
OP, focus on your own enjoyment of your own life. Don't let anything or anyone stand in the way of that. Life is just too short for anything else. If you are hinging your happiness on the "white picket fence, kids, and the perfect family" you better chose very carefully because if it's the wrong one, you will not just get to "walk away".
Glad to know people like you are helping to spread the word!!
I agree people label me as bitter or jaded etc. Fact is people like us are just telling the bitter truth.
Like you, I tell every man that will listen and even those who won't about what awaits them if they pursue the "American Dream" its a trick and a Nightmare for any many that gets suckered into it...
It's a sad sign of the times that people label us as "bitter" or "jaded". All we're doing is giving realistic real world advice. Time is on men's side. Not women. There's going to be plenty of "liberated" yet childless, miserable, lonely women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s in the coming years. They'll stick to their guns as to the cause being "men can't handle me" or some other stupid irrational reasoning.
It's not that men couldn't "handle" you sweetie, we couldn't give you the nonsense of "equality" and still be the man in the relationship.
Sorry about that. Found me a "dumb" woman who miraculously understands that I make the important decisions.
Is it normal I can't meet a nice girl?
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The good thing is men have finally started to see the light that the "American dream" is really just a dream and not reality. Sadly plenty of men paid dearly for their beliefs, thankfully I'm not one of them. I do my best to give any men I can solid advice as to what marriage really is today. You end up getting labeled as "bitter", but it's the reality of what society is. Too many guys (who have a lot to lose) have no idea what they're getting themselves into today.
OP, focus on your own enjoyment of your own life. Don't let anything or anyone stand in the way of that. Life is just too short for anything else. If you are hinging your happiness on the "white picket fence, kids, and the perfect family" you better chose very carefully because if it's the wrong one, you will not just get to "walk away".
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Glad to know people like you are helping to spread the word!!
I agree people label me as bitter or jaded etc. Fact is people like us are just telling the bitter truth.
Like you, I tell every man that will listen and even those who won't about what awaits them if they pursue the "American Dream" its a trick and a Nightmare for any many that gets suckered into it...
Keep up the good work!!
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It's a sad sign of the times that people label us as "bitter" or "jaded". All we're doing is giving realistic real world advice. Time is on men's side. Not women. There's going to be plenty of "liberated" yet childless, miserable, lonely women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s in the coming years. They'll stick to their guns as to the cause being "men can't handle me" or some other stupid irrational reasoning.
It's not that men couldn't "handle" you sweetie, we couldn't give you the nonsense of "equality" and still be the man in the relationship.
Sorry about that. Found me a "dumb" woman who miraculously understands that I make the important decisions.
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LOL...so so true!