So you are looking to "Loose" everything you worked for...
I know, it won't happen to you because you will find a 'nice' girl and settle down into the American dream.
Well if you must persist into such a course at the very least do not choose an American female. Take your time, do your own research about the virtues of foreign women...note not all are virtuous. But at least you can step back and compare the differences in 'actions' by women of different cultures and pick your poison with better results.
With that said I only have experience with American, Japanese, Korean, Irish and Polish women. American being only Black and White women. I know men who have Philippine wives and Chinese wives. Yes they are all completely different and 'do' share commonalities with other women of the same culture. From all those listed I'd put American women at the bottom of the list.
Yes I agree. The last time American women were worth being with was probably back in the 1950's well before I was born.
With foreign women the odds of finding a good one are way better than home grown.
Most of my relationships have been with foreign women (Hungarian, French, Cuban, Russian, Greek). The ones that were NOT foreign were the most problematic.
How was your experience with Polish women? I find them intriguing.
The good thing about modern times and the Internet is word spreads fast and people can support or prove most any claim right/wrong in no time.
I've read on many forums that men are catching on about American women and giving them the 'pass' for LTR/Marriage etc. These days good women, like those of the 50's etc who hold on to real values, are feminine and are okay with it, yet still educated, beautiful and loving deserve the world. My wife takes care of me 100% she's old school in her ways, I don't take advantage of her but instead spoil her... Its good to see more men choosing quality women and quality women getting the men they deserve.
"These days good women, like those of the 50's etc who hold on to real values, are feminine and are okay with it, yet still educated, beautiful and loving deserve the world.
My wife takes care of me 100% she's old school in her ways, I don't take advantage of her but instead spoil her... Its good to see more men choosing quality women and quality women getting the men they deserve. "
The good thing is men have finally started to see the light that the "American dream" is really just a dream and not reality. Sadly plenty of men paid dearly for their beliefs, thankfully I'm not one of them. I do my best to give any men I can solid advice as to what marriage really is today. You end up getting labeled as "bitter", but it's the reality of what society is. Too many guys (who have a lot to lose) have no idea what they're getting themselves into today.
OP, focus on your own enjoyment of your own life. Don't let anything or anyone stand in the way of that. Life is just too short for anything else. If you are hinging your happiness on the "white picket fence, kids, and the perfect family" you better chose very carefully because if it's the wrong one, you will not just get to "walk away".
Glad to know people like you are helping to spread the word!!
I agree people label me as bitter or jaded etc. Fact is people like us are just telling the bitter truth.
Like you, I tell every man that will listen and even those who won't about what awaits them if they pursue the "American Dream" its a trick and a Nightmare for any many that gets suckered into it...
It's a sad sign of the times that people label us as "bitter" or "jaded". All we're doing is giving realistic real world advice. Time is on men's side. Not women. There's going to be plenty of "liberated" yet childless, miserable, lonely women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s in the coming years. They'll stick to their guns as to the cause being "men can't handle me" or some other stupid irrational reasoning.
It's not that men couldn't "handle" you sweetie, we couldn't give you the nonsense of "equality" and still be the man in the relationship.
Sorry about that. Found me a "dumb" woman who miraculously understands that I make the important decisions.
Hi, yes Polish women are very intriguing. They are loyal, and keep the old traditions of women in the home while at the same time hold a job outside the home. This is not to say they should be taken advantage of or made to work and take care of everything in the home 100%. But they willingly take the responsibility with pride of taking care of 'their' family. The have a healthy sexual appetite, can cook, are good humored, and generally pleasant. Only thing is, which is just a fact is, they don't age well imo. At 45-50 they their genes take over and they show their age more than some others. But to a man in love with their wife, she will always be beautiful....so its really not a big deal. Russian and Ukrainian women are the same way.
IMO Ukrainian women [having worked with a few] seem more willing to adopt the American-Western attitude..which is not a good thing imo.
Sounds like Polish women are similar to Russian women or any Eastern bloc women for that matter. My experience with Russian and Hungarian women was pretty much as you describe.
I think the majority of western women have been poisoned by the worst aspects of western cultural values and attitudes as well as some of the worst aspects of feminism.
What I found with Russian / Eastern bloc women is they recognize that men and women are different and they embrace that difference. They are not afraid to express their femininity.
They embrace their sexuality in an enthusiastic and uninhibited way (the best sex I have ever had was with a Russian woman and a Hungarian woman - though not at the same time ;-)
With western women it seems there's often an undercurrent of competitiveness and an avoidance of their natural femininity. It's almost like they have become men in women's bodies.
Yes, it's VERY strange. It seems as if they rationalize behaving like a guy and being competitive but also expecting treatment that coincides with their female gender. Feminism and women's liberation movements have totally poisoned the American woman's mindset.
Just adding my agreement about the Russian women, with a warning - the one I had was unstable and as mad as a hatter. Not saying all are, but be careful with how much "crazy" doesn't actually translate over emails and messages.
Is it normal I can't meet a nice girl?
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So you are looking to "Loose" everything you worked for...
I know, it won't happen to you because you will find a 'nice' girl and settle down into the American dream.
Well if you must persist into such a course at the very least do not choose an American female. Take your time, do your own research about the virtues of foreign women...note not all are virtuous. But at least you can step back and compare the differences in 'actions' by women of different cultures and pick your poison with better results.
With that said I only have experience with American, Japanese, Korean, Irish and Polish women. American being only Black and White women. I know men who have Philippine wives and Chinese wives. Yes they are all completely different and 'do' share commonalities with other women of the same culture. From all those listed I'd put American women at the bottom of the list.
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Yes I agree. The last time American women were worth being with was probably back in the 1950's well before I was born.
With foreign women the odds of finding a good one are way better than home grown.
Most of my relationships have been with foreign women (Hungarian, French, Cuban, Russian, Greek). The ones that were NOT foreign were the most problematic.
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One other note.
The good thing about modern times and the Internet is word spreads fast and people can support or prove most any claim right/wrong in no time.
I've read on many forums that men are catching on about American women and giving them the 'pass' for LTR/Marriage etc. These days good women, like those of the 50's etc who hold on to real values, are feminine and are okay with it, yet still educated, beautiful and loving deserve the world. My wife takes care of me 100% she's old school in her ways, I don't take advantage of her but instead spoil her... Its good to see more men choosing quality women and quality women getting the men they deserve.
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"These days good women, like those of the 50's etc who hold on to real values, are feminine and are okay with it, yet still educated, beautiful and loving deserve the world.
My wife takes care of me 100% she's old school in her ways, I don't take advantage of her but instead spoil her... Its good to see more men choosing quality women and quality women getting the men they deserve. "
EXACTLY! Well said.
The good thing is men have finally started to see the light that the "American dream" is really just a dream and not reality. Sadly plenty of men paid dearly for their beliefs, thankfully I'm not one of them. I do my best to give any men I can solid advice as to what marriage really is today. You end up getting labeled as "bitter", but it's the reality of what society is. Too many guys (who have a lot to lose) have no idea what they're getting themselves into today.
OP, focus on your own enjoyment of your own life. Don't let anything or anyone stand in the way of that. Life is just too short for anything else. If you are hinging your happiness on the "white picket fence, kids, and the perfect family" you better chose very carefully because if it's the wrong one, you will not just get to "walk away".
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Glad to know people like you are helping to spread the word!!
I agree people label me as bitter or jaded etc. Fact is people like us are just telling the bitter truth.
Like you, I tell every man that will listen and even those who won't about what awaits them if they pursue the "American Dream" its a trick and a Nightmare for any many that gets suckered into it...
Keep up the good work!!
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It's a sad sign of the times that people label us as "bitter" or "jaded". All we're doing is giving realistic real world advice. Time is on men's side. Not women. There's going to be plenty of "liberated" yet childless, miserable, lonely women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s in the coming years. They'll stick to their guns as to the cause being "men can't handle me" or some other stupid irrational reasoning.
It's not that men couldn't "handle" you sweetie, we couldn't give you the nonsense of "equality" and still be the man in the relationship.
Sorry about that. Found me a "dumb" woman who miraculously understands that I make the important decisions.
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LOL...so so true!
Hi, yes Polish women are very intriguing. They are loyal, and keep the old traditions of women in the home while at the same time hold a job outside the home. This is not to say they should be taken advantage of or made to work and take care of everything in the home 100%. But they willingly take the responsibility with pride of taking care of 'their' family. The have a healthy sexual appetite, can cook, are good humored, and generally pleasant. Only thing is, which is just a fact is, they don't age well imo. At 45-50 they their genes take over and they show their age more than some others. But to a man in love with their wife, she will always be beautiful....so its really not a big deal. Russian and Ukrainian women are the same way.
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Thanks for your reply.
Sounds like Polish women are similar to Russian women or any Eastern bloc women for that matter. My experience with Russian and Hungarian women was pretty much as you describe.
I think the majority of western women have been poisoned by the worst aspects of western cultural values and attitudes as well as some of the worst aspects of feminism.
What I found with Russian / Eastern bloc women is they recognize that men and women are different and they embrace that difference. They are not afraid to express their femininity.
They embrace their sexuality in an enthusiastic and uninhibited way (the best sex I have ever had was with a Russian woman and a Hungarian woman - though not at the same time ;-)
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Yes, it's VERY strange. It seems as if they rationalize behaving like a guy and being competitive but also expecting treatment that coincides with their female gender. Feminism and women's liberation movements have totally poisoned the American woman's mindset.
Just adding my agreement about the Russian women, with a warning - the one I had was unstable and as mad as a hatter. Not saying all are, but be careful with how much "crazy" doesn't actually translate over emails and messages.
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Good info.
Always to crazy ones in the mix...lol.