Is it normal i can't get over the guy i lost my virginity to?

I lost my virginity to a guy who works in modelling and travels quite a lot around the world doing photo shoots. He left to live in New York right after we had sex, and so I haven't seen him again; but I can't get over him. I am always daydreaming he will take a plane and come and ask me out... which is very unlikely.
Well I guess it's pretty normal but What can i do to forget him?

Is It Normal?
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  • He had sex with you knowing he would never see you again. Where you in his future plans? Somehow I doubt that. He charmed his way into your panties. You both enjoyed it for what it was.

    He moved on and so should you. Although you enjoy thinking about him - you should stop. It's keeping you from meeting someone real.

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    • that's a good point.

      unless he's making an attempt to keep the channels open it sounds like it was a one-shot for him.

      if it was very recent then it's understanding that the feelings may still be strong, but... if it's been a while then you (the OP that is) may need to consider that... some people have sex without emotional ties.

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  • Guys are not like women. They can be cruel and selfish. This guy obviously knew he was leaving. So the thing to forget about him is to think about how disgusting and twisted it was that he did that to you. That should be a big turn off right there, and hopefully you will find someone special. Best of luck to you.

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    • Thanks! :)

      Although I mean, I also knew he was leaving. I could've said no.

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  • Get over him by getting under another guy.

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  • Yea it's normal cause you haven't met me lmao! I'm a 23 yo male is my username normal? Lol. No for real tho I banged this chick who couldn't get over her first now she's texting me 3 years later says when her new man makes her climax she says my name sometimes still cause I laid it down on her like no other had her squirtin like 6-10 times everytime I hit, is that normal. I'm talking pools of love juice on the bed that can't be normal!! You just gotta find a real man in bed & nothing else will go through your head!!

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  • I cant forget

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    • Oh.... I see. Hpe you enjoyed

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  • Daniel october 2011 at his beach house

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    • Uh, what?

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  • Wham, bam, thank you maam. Then he jumps on a plane and flies away.

    He ain't coming back. He's too busy bangin' hoes all around the globe.

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  • Hey I am sorry for fucking you all night. You are a bitch and you wont see me again.

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  • I'm sorry to say but , that's just one person you'll never truly get over. I lost my virginity about eighteen years ago. And there's not a day that goes by that I don't think about her.

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  • I am sorry that you made this decision. Feel the pain and ride it out. You'll never forget him but eventually he'll just be a memory.

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  • Just try to forget hm by gttng into a new relationship with someone you really love and know better.

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