Is it normal i can't get a boyfriend?

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I've had 6 relationships in past 3 i'd say were serious but lately i cant seem to get a boyfriend, im 24... im even dropping my standards.. its strange because im prettier now, than i use to be, probably say my personality has got better because im less clingy and more laid back? is this going against me? i go with flow more now and its strange, i get told i have a good personality and im pretty all the time, guys always always seem to fancy me but don't want relationships with me i feel? and i'm not a one night stand girl and only do sexual things with guys im in relationships with, i sometimes feel like there is something wrong with me, why could this be? i've been trying nearly a year now (i dont take anything and only obviously go on dates with guys i fancy but my standards are very realistic, im unsure what is going on right now)

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    It's probably just cause you are getting older. I have noticed there are less opportunities as we age.

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  • Bazinga
    5 years ago

    At age 24, you are expected to be smart, professional, and have a direction in life. Your post does not have very much direction at all. Do you even have a dating profile?

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago

      Dating profile? That's for sluts...

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      • Bazinga
        5 years ago

        And gold diggers. Lots of creeps and weirdos too. You should write a profile for yourself.

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        • [Old Memory]
          5 years ago

          lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Given the information provided, I believe you are a great woman who has decency and self-respect. I admire this in a woman and I am personally interested in having relationships with women like you when I am single. It might be that men, at your age, are interested in having sex with sluts rather than having serious relationships, so this might be the cause of your problem.

    In order to solve it, you might want to look for older men, perhaps below or around 30.

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  • Goku19
    5 years ago

    Six relationships already sounds like use and move. You can make it dozen in a year if you try hard.

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  • HypnoDom
    5 years ago

    Love and relationships are hard! Sometimes things just don't work out as we hope. Keep trying!

    Sometimes I suggest my female friends think through a few steps. I ask them to define their ideal relationship (which is more than the ideal man--the ideal relationship might make them realize some changes are needed on their end as well), their ideal person, and where that sort of person tends to spend his time. Then to go to those places.

    As you say, you're pretty, so you likely get a lot of attention. I've had friends who accidentally send the wrong cues unintentionally... not continuing a conversation when a guy starts flirting, looking away, adopting off-putting body language, that sort of thing. Just smile, make eye contact and talk and you're golden.

    Of course then there's the problem of finding someone interested in a relationship. That can make things much more challenging. Don't give up! You can do it! 24 is very young yet.

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  • farkelu
    5 years ago

    Maybe because you're boring... I fell asleep before I even got halfway thru your post!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      not boring at all lol, i suppose i didnt really give much details about myself in the post though

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      • farkelu
        5 years ago

        No, you didn't :-( might help us know more if we're going to help you. For example, what do you think caused your previous 6 relationships to end? And isn't being in a relationship considered having a bf? Or were they just dating/flings? Anything about your relationship with your parents - especially your father - that might affect your relationships with men? You gotta give us the good stuff if you want us to help you see what's going on!

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