Is it normal i can't feel any pleasure on my vagina?

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I have been trying to masturbate for years now and have tried so many different ways, I've just tried everything with no result. I can feel really turned on and aroused but derive no pleasure.

The only way I can feel anything good down below is by applying a lot of pressure to that area and kind of moving around a bit. (eg sitting on something like a bike and putting all my body weight onto my vagina so I'm kind of balancing on it and then kind of moving around a bit). But this way the pleasure only lasts for a few seconds and it's very hard to achieve (can take up to 15 minutes to get this, or it might not work at all).

I'm wondering if there is a problem with my nerves or if it's a psychological issue. I'm too embarrassed to go to a doctor about it.

Please help if you know what might be the problem and how I can solve it. It's really frustrating when I'm aroused but can't do anything about it.. /:

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago | pl

    Why does it matter you dont need sex ?

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    • PalestinianGuy
      11 years ago | pl

      Allistalla, your stupidity amazes me.

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      • Allistalla
        11 years ago | pl

        Ok ? I do not see how I am being stupid if she can not have sex ? what if she is not going to have children I have no idea were she is from ? but if she is not having kids is it bad she can not have sex ?

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        • PalestinianGuy
          11 years ago | pl

          I'm sorry for calling you stupid Allistalla, but it's clear that the op asked this question because she NEEDS sex.

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          • Allistalla
            11 years ago | pl

            No one needs sex ? unless they are trying to create children ? That is why we have sex to make babys and babys will create the next generation and of those kids they will make more babys and than life will continue . However if we are at war we need more babys that is why in times of war women are encouraged to make more babys as in world war II as it was encouraged in most cultures to make more babys becuase more poeple were dying and they needed to fill in the gaps . That way that race of poeple would not die out this is also the reason why Japan wanted to take over china as the poor poeple up in Japan have no room to move and grow which is a pitty considering they are so smart . They want more room becuase if that tiny popullation dies the japans poeple and the blood line will nolonger exsist this is also a reason I believe poeple are slightly racist about marrying out side there familys . They want to keep there poeple and there bloodline pure and to keep there race alive .

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago | pl

      Cause it's caused problems in relationships in the past, and I don't want it to in the future. You don't need sex but it's a shame if you can't enjoy it and connect with someone you love.

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      • Allistalla
        11 years ago | pl

        I understand your piont . Did you try asking the doctor why you can not ?

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago | pl

    See a doctor.

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  • SexyJeffyLol
    9 years ago | pl

    I have a good way to be pleasures Its So good First go on Your bed Next lay down Obviously Lol Take your Blanket and put Hand in it and Start humping i Get sweaty While doing it :)

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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago | pl

    I can't either.

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  • aminormal321
    11 years ago | pl

    There's a lot of girls that don't get that much pleasure from doing it themselves. Get a guy to help you out, or if that's not an option, use toys or a shower head

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago | pl

      Tried a showerhead.. doesn't do anything for me personally. As for toys, I really can't. I'd have nowhere to hide it and be really worried about it being discovered by my mum.

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      • RaNdOmPoPcOrN
        11 years ago | pl

        Use a vibrater (buy one, eletric toothbrush, electric shaver) 0r go on askjolene.com (no download or money nesssry) and use the good ol finger :D

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    try an adult store for advice? or perhaps a doctor

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago | pl

      Adults ? Everyone on this site is suppose to 18 or over ? We are all suppose to be adults ? Though I would too reccomend the Doctor if OP is truly concerned .

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        11 years ago | pl

        She means an 'adult' store. ;)

        And as I mentioned previously, I'm too embarrassed..

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        • Allistalla
          11 years ago | pl

          Honestly I would be imbarrased to go to a sexshop too .

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          • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
            11 years ago | pl

            why be embarrassed?

            as adults we need to be open and honest with ourselves about our sexual desires.

            of course the tradeoff is that minors can't get into adult stores either. which is often why I suggest them to people here *evil grin*

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  • Dad
    11 years ago | pl

    Girls (or females) do take about 10 or 15 mins to get to the point of being aroused.
    This is different to guys. Guys could take literally seconds to get to ejaculation.

    As per normal, you just need a guy who will spend more time on satisfying YOU. Even if it takes an hour! Or all day ;)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago | pl

      Thanks dad.

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