I would have to have guys interested in me to play that role.. I work full time in an environment made up of 95% females and the other 5% married men, I don't think I've ever had another shoulder to lean on, let alone the time to find one.. I'm sorry you've had a bad run in with females though. Or is it that you've formed an opinion after watching to much TV and assume girls are this way? Either way, keep looking with your chin up, and don't don't be like me when you hit a bad relationship. And don't be like my boyfriend when you find a good one. Out of curiosity, do you live in the states? Just cause I see a lot of guys post on here about "Friend zoning" and women that use you etc... but I'm kind of curious if that's an American woman thing, because around here there are actually a lot of nice girls. Not to say they're all nice, but if you were actually looking you could pick out some good ones
I'm an older man and when you live a few years there are some things you just get tired of,one of them is the love and devotion for jerks routine,there are men out there who would treat a woman like gold but they are ignored because they lack the bold,brash assholiness and loud mouth swagger that women cannot seem to get enough of.....these men come with a price,infidelity being the most common, and I don't understand why women who choose them don't just pay the price in silence instead of asking people if they normal or doing the normal thing when they know better.
Hmm..well I know what I'm going through isn't a "good" thing, I thought it might at least be common. I'm just not good at breaking up with people.. If he cheated on me it would be much easier. But when he's not doing anything infinitely wrong I just can't do it. I didn't choose him because of asshole swagger either, I go for cute guys, and we started dating in high school. He was so shy and adorable. Didn't have any friends, could barely speak to a girl. That's pretty much my type, shy nerdy boys n.n The irony was that dating me gave him confidence and he changed.. erg. It's not all bad though, which is why I stay with him. I'm %100 sure that if I was single and met a nice guy I could be with him forever. I'd have to be single though, cause lets face it. I girl who's dating another guy and dumps him for a "nice" guy isn't a very nice girl.
Is it normal I can never get out of bad relationships?
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I would have to have guys interested in me to play that role.. I work full time in an environment made up of 95% females and the other 5% married men, I don't think I've ever had another shoulder to lean on, let alone the time to find one.. I'm sorry you've had a bad run in with females though. Or is it that you've formed an opinion after watching to much TV and assume girls are this way? Either way, keep looking with your chin up, and don't don't be like me when you hit a bad relationship. And don't be like my boyfriend when you find a good one. Out of curiosity, do you live in the states? Just cause I see a lot of guys post on here about "Friend zoning" and women that use you etc... but I'm kind of curious if that's an American woman thing, because around here there are actually a lot of nice girls. Not to say they're all nice, but if you were actually looking you could pick out some good ones
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I'm an older man and when you live a few years there are some things you just get tired of,one of them is the love and devotion for jerks routine,there are men out there who would treat a woman like gold but they are ignored because they lack the bold,brash assholiness and loud mouth swagger that women cannot seem to get enough of.....these men come with a price,infidelity being the most common, and I don't understand why women who choose them don't just pay the price in silence instead of asking people if they normal or doing the normal thing when they know better.
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Hmm..well I know what I'm going through isn't a "good" thing, I thought it might at least be common. I'm just not good at breaking up with people.. If he cheated on me it would be much easier. But when he's not doing anything infinitely wrong I just can't do it. I didn't choose him because of asshole swagger either, I go for cute guys, and we started dating in high school. He was so shy and adorable. Didn't have any friends, could barely speak to a girl. That's pretty much my type, shy nerdy boys n.n The irony was that dating me gave him confidence and he changed.. erg. It's not all bad though, which is why I stay with him. I'm %100 sure that if I was single and met a nice guy I could be with him forever. I'd have to be single though, cause lets face it. I girl who's dating another guy and dumps him for a "nice" guy isn't a very nice girl.
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Woops guess I'm not anonymous anymore lol