Is it normal i believe men can not be raped?

You question shows a staggering lack of empathy and understanding of what it is to be human. I'm not saying it shouldn't be asked, but I am concerned that you think humans are like machines. That our brains operate in simple boolean algebra.

I don't have complete control over my body: my penis, my heart rate or my nipples. I wish I had. Put it like this: if someone with a deadly illness stroked my penis and told me they wanted to infect me through sex, I know it would get hard. Do you believe me when I tell you that I still wouldn't want to have sex with that person? If a woman has an orgasm through rape. It is still rape. If you can't understand something that basic then you are not normal.

It's a physical, sometimes involuntary, response that doesn't necessarily have anything to do with consent.

I find your view offensive. And I'm female.

That's offensive and I'm a guy by the way. That's like me saying: "a woman can't get their vagina taken away against their will because if I slide a penis in it it will get wet regardless, nope don't buy it."

There are physical reactions that occur to the body that don't necessarily require "happiness." If somebody touches your vagina, regardless of your consent you're probably going to get wet, just purely cause of instincts. Doesn't mean that you want it though. It's a physical reaction that happens when stimulated, regardless of your consent a physical reaction will occur.

Rape is about power, and leaves people scarred for life.
Personally, I'm sick of people saying men can't be raped, they can, just like how women can be raped.
Nobody wants sex against their will, rather it's by a man, or woman.

You are not normal and are exceptionally ignorant. Your opinions are dreadful.

I think you should do more research before you write posts, because you could be putting yourself across as ignorant and insensitive.
Of course men can be raped, by use of penis. It has happened and it will happen again.

I 100% agree with this post! :)

Most male victims of rape are not in that position, but in the position of having been falsely accused of rape by a vile monstrous woman who believes she OWNS sex, and as such rapes the man with her lies to destroy him, trying to hide behind self-lies such as "he only used me for sex" to try to sate their virtually-non-existant consciences. Most rapes of men are of this nature, and they are rapes that never end, except for the very few that succeed in imprisoning their attacker in todays disgusting "Woman's licence to rape" culture.

And yes... I speak from experience - quite possibly more experience than anyone else you're likely to meet.

I can see how you might think that if you've been cruising around is it normal to much recently. People on here make it seem like guys are just horny dogs.
Men can definitely be raped, it may not be as common as women, but it's definitely a possibility. I know a guy who got molested by his female next door neighbor. He was in high school, probably about 15years old at the time. She was drunk and broke into his house while he was asleep. She was a big fat woman and she over powered him pretty easily. I feel really bad for him.. it was very traumatic and he has issues getting up now because of it

Viagra.

Ugh.... I'm not even putting in the effort to get you to understand... if you don't understand it just don't worry about it.

When people talk about raping a male, it usually means anal penetration. But not always. And plenty of men get hard ons without wanting one. Especially teens. And have you ever heard of morning wood? Waking up with a boner doesn't meant you wake up horny.

You are being insensitive to the issue at hand. Many rapists drug the victim. They don't give concent or fight back. But their body still functions. And that is very much rape.

That is a really normal belief to have. Unfortunately it is very incorrect.

True, most men cannot hold an erection in fear, but a lot of guys can. Some are coerced (I had a friend who's GF would threaten to kill herself when he refused her. As well as a lot of other things...) some are drugged etc.

Orgasm is a part of the brain, yes, but you can still easily orgasm when you're scared, even when you're being physically hurt. Orgasm or enjoyment does not equal consent.

You brought up the issue of "but you don't say 'yes stick it in' every time you have sex" BUT that would imply that the only time anyone ever has sex with anyone is in those sorts of situations. Even if a girl is dripping wet she still has the right to say no, the same goes for guys erections. True, you can get implied consent by body language (and it's common for most couples) but if he/she is leaning away from you/not responding positively you would (hopefully) ask.

All in all I think dybex explained it best.