was not able to hide this one and my dad finally told her to leave for good, she now has her own house about 20 minutes away she has seen doctors and had a lot of help and there was times I could talk to her for hours and she was there for me and I felt normal like my mum was like everyone else's now, but she will then have times where she does not make an effort and its like she does not even know you anymore, sometimes I think it would be easier if she was gone for good because she has let me down time and time again the last time she even spoke to me was the end of February and she was fine she talks to my dad and she has my brother ad sister over to stay with her but I feel that politicians are able to defraud voters with empty promises that they have no intention of even attempting to keep without consequence. Given this system I feel it is basically pointless to vote because there is no real way to know what you are voting for. A politician could hold the opposite views of what he claims and yet there is no way to know or punish him for defrauding the people. This may sound mean but I would highly recommend screening your calls when it comes to your aunt. I do that with everyone, family included. I still do favors for them but at my convenience. It's not good to be at anyone's beckon call. If you have plans it might even be a good idea to delay returning her calls until after you've finished with your plans. I know you said you can't say no because they're family but lots of people say no to family if it's an unreasonable request. I honestly believe you can say, "no" you just have to practice.
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was not able to hide this one and my dad finally told her to leave for good, she now has her own house about 20 minutes away she has seen doctors and had a lot of help and there was times I could talk to her for hours and she was there for me and I felt normal like my mum was like everyone else's now, but she will then have times where she does not make an effort and its like she does not even know you anymore, sometimes I think it would be easier if she was gone for good because she has let me down time and time again the last time she even spoke to me was the end of February and she was fine she talks to my dad and she has my brother ad sister over to stay with her but I feel that politicians are able to defraud voters with empty promises that they have no intention of even attempting to keep without consequence. Given this system I feel it is basically pointless to vote because there is no real way to know what you are voting for. A politician could hold the opposite views of what he claims and yet there is no way to know or punish him for defrauding the people. This may sound mean but I would highly recommend screening your calls when it comes to your aunt. I do that with everyone, family included. I still do favors for them but at my convenience. It's not good to be at anyone's beckon call. If you have plans it might even be a good idea to delay returning her calls until after you've finished with your plans. I know you said you can't say no because they're family but lots of people say no to family if it's an unreasonable request. I honestly believe you can say, "no" you just have to practice.