Don't worry about his dad - men don't talk much to their own kids, never mind their gfs.
But, you need to get his mom on-side.
I have a teenage son and can't be bothered with some of his friends who come into MY house and don't even say hello when they see me. I'm lucky to get a grunt as a response! Others stick their head into the room to say "Hi, how are you?" and it lets me know they're there. It's much better to have manners, even if you're shy.
I also feed his crowd of mates with pizza etc and only the best ever say 'thank you'. I'm thinking, "What's wrong with these kids? How have they been raised?"
You really need to acknowledge his mom and show appreciation for everything she allows you to do in her home. If you don't - you're toast!!
Inside she's thinking, "Grrrr, who's this young girl taking my little baby boy away from me? She better be good to him or I'll rip her head off!"
Most mothers really dote on their sons, doing everything for them and wanting them to succeed in school and their careers so you don't want to be seen as holding him back in any way. His mom will be happiest when she hears him laughing with you - then she knows he's happy with you!!
Just show some basic respect for her and she will grow to really like you!
Is it normal I am not acknowledged by my boyfriend's mom.
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Don't worry about his dad - men don't talk much to their own kids, never mind their gfs.
But, you need to get his mom on-side.
I have a teenage son and can't be bothered with some of his friends who come into MY house and don't even say hello when they see me. I'm lucky to get a grunt as a response! Others stick their head into the room to say "Hi, how are you?" and it lets me know they're there. It's much better to have manners, even if you're shy.
I also feed his crowd of mates with pizza etc and only the best ever say 'thank you'. I'm thinking, "What's wrong with these kids? How have they been raised?"
You really need to acknowledge his mom and show appreciation for everything she allows you to do in her home. If you don't - you're toast!!
Inside she's thinking, "Grrrr, who's this young girl taking my little baby boy away from me? She better be good to him or I'll rip her head off!"
Most mothers really dote on their sons, doing everything for them and wanting them to succeed in school and their careers so you don't want to be seen as holding him back in any way. His mom will be happiest when she hears him laughing with you - then she knows he's happy with you!!
Just show some basic respect for her and she will grow to really like you!