Is it normal i am hurt from woman being unfriendly

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I was at gas station. This woman was being super friendly to the cashier, but suddenly turned very cold when I smiled and tried to be friendly to her. She was not in a bad mood and she did not know the cashier because she asked him his name. I have a beard that's getting longer, it's more than in inch long all around and I haven't shaved my neck beard. I'm guessing that might be some of it, because I was just as friendly as the cashier was being and she didn't know him either cause she asked his name. I also pointed out to her a dime soneone dropped on the floor and said with a smile she could have it, no smile from her, no thanks, nothing. But she thanked the cashier very warmly who didn't do her any favors out of his own will, he was just doing his job. I know my beard's getting long and scruffy but I'm not sure if that was it.

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  • Ratmanhomie
    6 years ago

    So there you are, appearing as an unwashed bum and pointing out a lost dime on the floor to a nice lady. Dude, you need to replay that video a few more times.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      I never said I was unwashed. I said my beard's getting scruffy. And what's wrong with pointing out a dime on the floor?

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  • Moe_Moe_Kyun
    6 years ago

    Is it normal to feel hurt by someone being unfriendly? Yes. Naturally most people would think that something is wrong with themselves or that they did something wrong to give themselves a reason as to why someone else treated them(or didn't treat them) a certain way

    Maybe she thought you were a creeper?? Not because of the beard but because someone she doesn't know,(you) is pointing out something on the ground for her to *bend over* and pick up. Maybe she thought you wanted to see her butt sticking up in the air.

    I don't think it has anything to do with the beard though. There are girls who don't feel comfortable having a tall guy stand close to them because they're afraid the guy might be able to see down their shirt. If a girl scoots a few inches away the guy might feel hurt and wonder what he did wrong or what was wrong with him. He might start thinking of what he needs to change about himself so it doesn't happen again but in reality that girl just didn't want to risk having someone be able to see down her shirt

    On the other hand though the girl at the store could've totally been the type of person to smile and play friends with people they want something from and be mean to everyone else in the world they want nothing from

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  • AntiArchon
    6 years ago

    try shaving your beard and see if people will be more friendly. But don't come off desperate for approval or attention coz that puts people off.. but the best thing you could do is just not give a fuck.

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  • FeralDefiance
    6 years ago

    You sound obliviously, hilariously creepy.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      I don't mind you saying that I may've appeared creepy, because I need people to point those things out so I can realize what I may've done wrong, so I won't repeat them again. I was just wondering what you meant by the hilarious part. What in your opinion do you feel I may've done wrong? I want you to tell me so I'll know what not to do next time.

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      • Algum
        6 years ago

        I'll tell ya. For starters, you are worrying way too much about some strange woman in a public place you don't even know. That in itself is creepy. She was probably attracted to the cashier and not to you. That's the real world. Some women will be attracted to some guys and not to others. That's life, you gotta deal with that. Just stop worrying about it and love yourself.

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