Thats strange. Maybe they're trying to get their life in check before any serious relationship starts happening. It sounds like they're putting the relationship on hold, until they've gotten situated in their new job. But if they've already made the committment as you've stated, it really doesn't make much sense.
You should come right out and ask them what they mean, that you're a little confused as to where this is going, and why it is, that because they're settling in a job, how something like that is keeping things from moving forward.
is it normal i always fear to lose my love
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After settlement in a job?
Thats strange. Maybe they're trying to get their life in check before any serious relationship starts happening. It sounds like they're putting the relationship on hold, until they've gotten situated in their new job. But if they've already made the committment as you've stated, it really doesn't make much sense.
You should come right out and ask them what they mean, that you're a little confused as to where this is going, and why it is, that because they're settling in a job, how something like that is keeping things from moving forward.