I didn't fuck or kiss a guy until I was 26. I was always scared to socialize with strangers, but I realized I had to do it in order to find someone. I went out and talked to guys. I also joined a dating site and messaged guys with similar interests, similar incomes, pretty much similar everything. I did have a lot of embarrassing encounters, and met a few crazy people, but I eventually found someone. I'm still with him now. I guess what I'm saying is you shouldn't be waiting until a guy starts a relationship with you. You should approach them instead.
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Not the OP but I'm also 26 and never (intentionally) seen a dude naked IRL. Never really felt that close with anyone before. Anyway, is it weird once you finally do, so late in life? I will be 27 in a few months and feel like I might as well give relationships a try, pretty worried about it though
By society's standards today, it's not really considered normal, but dont let it bother you. My lack of experience wasn't a problem when I was talking to guys. They didn't seem to care I lacked experience. While there are guys out there that do think experience matters, there are many who don't care, and would be happy to know you.
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Yeah, most guys I've talked to don't really care, some even prefer it or think it's cute. There has only been 1 guy in my life that I've ever really felt close enough with to be attracted to, so if I ever do it will probably be with him first. Just don't know what to expect when the time comes
Back in the day I would put up a profile on a dating site and just wait. I tried messaging some women until I realized they were getting messages like crazy. I stopped doing that and let them find me. It worked a lot better.
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I didn't fuck or kiss a guy until I was 26. I was always scared to socialize with strangers, but I realized I had to do it in order to find someone. I went out and talked to guys. I also joined a dating site and messaged guys with similar interests, similar incomes, pretty much similar everything. I did have a lot of embarrassing encounters, and met a few crazy people, but I eventually found someone. I'm still with him now. I guess what I'm saying is you shouldn't be waiting until a guy starts a relationship with you. You should approach them instead.
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Not the OP but I'm also 26 and never (intentionally) seen a dude naked IRL. Never really felt that close with anyone before. Anyway, is it weird once you finally do, so late in life? I will be 27 in a few months and feel like I might as well give relationships a try, pretty worried about it though
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By society's standards today, it's not really considered normal, but dont let it bother you. My lack of experience wasn't a problem when I was talking to guys. They didn't seem to care I lacked experience. While there are guys out there that do think experience matters, there are many who don't care, and would be happy to know you.
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Yeah, most guys I've talked to don't really care, some even prefer it or think it's cute. There has only been 1 guy in my life that I've ever really felt close enough with to be attracted to, so if I ever do it will probably be with him first. Just don't know what to expect when the time comes
Yes, it's not like 100 years ago when most people saved sex til marriage.
Back in the day I would put up a profile on a dating site and just wait. I tried messaging some women until I realized they were getting messages like crazy. I stopped doing that and let them find me. It worked a lot better.
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Im glad that worked for you. It probably helped you filter out the crazies too. XD There were so many crazy guys and gals on the site I was on.