Is it normal husband never wakes up with the baby he is 20 months old

My husband never wakes up with our baby who is 20 months old. He barely plays with him and always seems like our baby is a bother :(

Is It Normal?
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  • From your title, it appears your husband is 20 MONTHS OLD???
    Jesus......

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  • I think it boils down to the father figure they had in there life and how selfish they truly are. I can't say I have had the same experience as most women my husband is very hands on always has ben. Don't get me wrong I go on strikes when I don't feel appreciated and whips him back into place. But being selfless and being a loving father is not born there made

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    • I believe you're right. My husband's whole family believes that women should cater to men, serve them. That's probably where this is coming from.

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  • I like babies on my pizza:) lol jk but seriously ur husband is a dick

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  • Same happened to me. I had 3 kids. He wasn't hands on but by the time I had my 3rd he took no notice of them and they started to notice. We split up cuz he was cheating. Best thing that happened. They are much happier (oldest is 12 now) and rarely see him, and are happier than they've ever been.

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  • My husband has been the same way since our son's birth. (Now 8 months) I spent the whole time in the hospital alone. Even his friends came to see me but my husband stayed out having "congratulatory parties". It really hurts my feelings and makes me angry because as a mother, (and I know you feel the same)I know that my child deserves his love and affection. I don't know if this changes but I'm really hoping it does. I'm praying for ya girl. :)

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  • Babies ARE a bother. I don't even like pets. I vote normal.

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