In all seriousness, yes it's very easy and comfortable to go back to an ex. I have cheated with exes when I was young because in my mind it seemed like I'd already slept with the girl so the chronology of it seemed secondary. That's of course very flawed logic, but guys can justify just about anything when sex is involved. I'd just be open and honest about it without being all crazy. I really AM actual friends with several exes and as long as I care about the girl I'm with I'd never cheat. Accessible ex or not, if he's into you he won't cheat. Determine that without bringing her up because if it's not her it'll be someone else if that's his M.O.
IIN his ex on Instagram?
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In all seriousness, yes it's very easy and comfortable to go back to an ex. I have cheated with exes when I was young because in my mind it seemed like I'd already slept with the girl so the chronology of it seemed secondary. That's of course very flawed logic, but guys can justify just about anything when sex is involved. I'd just be open and honest about it without being all crazy. I really AM actual friends with several exes and as long as I care about the girl I'm with I'd never cheat. Accessible ex or not, if he's into you he won't cheat. Determine that without bringing her up because if it's not her it'll be someone else if that's his M.O.