It sounds like you made up your mind already. it also seems like this has been brewing inside you for quite a while.
If you feel so strongly about leaving him, you should trust your gut. I can't imagine how it must be like to be you in this situation but I can tell you that it sounds like the best thing to do for yourself.
I get the sense that you feel trapped and deep down you know that if you delay this any longer you will feel like second best and having to settle for what he serves you up with.
Just make 100% sure that when/if you decide to break up with him, that it's a clean break and not one of those where you start missing him after a month :)
It sounds like you two are at different points in where you want this relationship to go. It also sounds like you don't need him.
Find someone who is on the same level as you are next time :)
Here's some advice : if you get into another relationship, be sure to look out for the little things that silently agitates you... because those little things grow into bigger things.
Is it normal he wont say why he wont come see me?
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It sounds like you made up your mind already. it also seems like this has been brewing inside you for quite a while.
If you feel so strongly about leaving him, you should trust your gut. I can't imagine how it must be like to be you in this situation but I can tell you that it sounds like the best thing to do for yourself.
I get the sense that you feel trapped and deep down you know that if you delay this any longer you will feel like second best and having to settle for what he serves you up with.
Just make 100% sure that when/if you decide to break up with him, that it's a clean break and not one of those where you start missing him after a month :)
It sounds like you two are at different points in where you want this relationship to go. It also sounds like you don't need him.
Find someone who is on the same level as you are next time :)
Here's some advice : if you get into another relationship, be sure to look out for the little things that silently agitates you... because those little things grow into bigger things.