I went thru a very similar situation. however, my suggestion is to CUT HIM OFF COMPLETELY. your father sounds like he is affecting your self-esteem. abandoning him and forcing him to look at his own faults should teach him a lesson, but you have to be very strong. this is what i did to my father, and i dont regret it not one bit, because he stayed the same until the grave. if i had continued communication with him it would have only dragged me down. good luck and dont give in. side note: make a new life for yourself and be happy about doing it. do it without fear or guilt. another side note: do everything you can to make sure you don't marry someone just like your father. twists of fate are weird like that. find your true self, then find a mate. good luck.
Is it normal he suddenly wants me back?
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I went thru a very similar situation. however, my suggestion is to CUT HIM OFF COMPLETELY. your father sounds like he is affecting your self-esteem. abandoning him and forcing him to look at his own faults should teach him a lesson, but you have to be very strong. this is what i did to my father, and i dont regret it not one bit, because he stayed the same until the grave. if i had continued communication with him it would have only dragged me down. good luck and dont give in. side note: make a new life for yourself and be happy about doing it. do it without fear or guilt. another side note: do everything you can to make sure you don't marry someone just like your father. twists of fate are weird like that. find your true self, then find a mate. good luck.