I agree. I went thru a very similar situation. however, my suggestion is to CUT HIM OFF COMPLETELY. your father sounds like he is affecting your self-esteem. abandoning him and forcing him to look at his own faults should teach him a lesson, but you have to be very strong. this is what i did to my father, and i dont regret it not one bit, because he stayed the same until the grave. if i had continued communication with him it would have only dragged me down. good luck and dont give in. another side note: do everything you can to make sure you don't marry someone just like your father. twists of fate are weird like that. good luck.
Is it normal he suddenly wants me back?
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I agree. I went thru a very similar situation. however, my suggestion is to CUT HIM OFF COMPLETELY. your father sounds like he is affecting your self-esteem. abandoning him and forcing him to look at his own faults should teach him a lesson, but you have to be very strong. this is what i did to my father, and i dont regret it not one bit, because he stayed the same until the grave. if i had continued communication with him it would have only dragged me down. good luck and dont give in. another side note: do everything you can to make sure you don't marry someone just like your father. twists of fate are weird like that. good luck.