Your mom used to do all the shit stuff for the un-appreciative prick. The only reason I am sad to say, he wants you back is to look after him like your mom used too.
I am sorry to say but your dad seems like a demanding douchebag. Your mom no doubt is doing fine.
I am not saying that you should cut him out altogether, just don't pander to him. It is the best you could do for him. Make him learn that other people aren't there for his every whim.
Sounds harsh of me. But I have had a similar experience with my uncaring un-appapreciatve father. He was a self righteous pig who expected his every whim to the letter, till my mom left and he finally learnt how to grow up!
I agree. I went thru a very similar situation. however, my suggestion is to CUT HIM OFF COMPLETELY. your father sounds like he is affecting your self-esteem. abandoning him and forcing him to look at his own faults should teach him a lesson, but you have to be very strong. this is what i did to my father, and i dont regret it not one bit, because he stayed the same until the grave. if i had continued communication with him it would have only dragged me down. good luck and dont give in. another side note: do everything you can to make sure you don't marry someone just like your father. twists of fate are weird like that. good luck.
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Your mom used to do all the shit stuff for the un-appreciative prick. The only reason I am sad to say, he wants you back is to look after him like your mom used too.
I am sorry to say but your dad seems like a demanding douchebag. Your mom no doubt is doing fine.
I am not saying that you should cut him out altogether, just don't pander to him. It is the best you could do for him. Make him learn that other people aren't there for his every whim.
Sounds harsh of me. But I have had a similar experience with my uncaring un-appapreciatve father. He was a self righteous pig who expected his every whim to the letter, till my mom left and he finally learnt how to grow up!
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I agree. I went thru a very similar situation. however, my suggestion is to CUT HIM OFF COMPLETELY. your father sounds like he is affecting your self-esteem. abandoning him and forcing him to look at his own faults should teach him a lesson, but you have to be very strong. this is what i did to my father, and i dont regret it not one bit, because he stayed the same until the grave. if i had continued communication with him it would have only dragged me down. good luck and dont give in. another side note: do everything you can to make sure you don't marry someone just like your father. twists of fate are weird like that. good luck.