he's using you to get revenge on your mom. its sadistic in a way. your situation will change when you decide not to let guilt and fear affect your decision/life. you need to make decisions out of sheer happiness, desire for a better life, and confidence, without fear. make the decision that you want something better for yourself, make a plan, stick to it and do not deviate from it. your goal in life is to be happy, and your father is an obstacle to that goal that must be removed.
Thats the thing I dont like going bak and force and I was told it look like he grew up but I fear if I go bavk he will take it as "see it was all her fualt not mine ". However I know he also kicked me out since he cant afford me and the person im staying withnow can.
Is it normal he suddenly wants me back?
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Maybe give him another chance even a few days maybe hell come around and if not you can always move back our again
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her father sounds like he's addicted to being selfish. giving him another chance will only give him another fix.
I need to pick up the rest,of my stuff today but he suddenly says nwvermind come back home.
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he's using you to get revenge on your mom. its sadistic in a way. your situation will change when you decide not to let guilt and fear affect your decision/life. you need to make decisions out of sheer happiness, desire for a better life, and confidence, without fear. make the decision that you want something better for yourself, make a plan, stick to it and do not deviate from it. your goal in life is to be happy, and your father is an obstacle to that goal that must be removed.
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How so would this be making revenge on my mother?"
Do you have gold so I could isnt message you.
Thats the thing I dont like going bak and force and I was told it look like he grew up but I fear if I go bavk he will take it as "see it was all her fualt not mine ". However I know he also kicked me out since he cant afford me and the person im staying withnow can.