it's this fictitious mental block some men seem to have by default that a chick MUST always orgasm to enjoy sex. (and in a way you cant blame that thinking given that our frame of reference is our own experience)
maybe show him an article that states women can/still enjoy themselves without an orgasm. because otherwise he probably thinks you're only saying that to make him feel better (unless it's an ego thing to get you off, in which case, good luck). it might help if you say that you enjoy foreplay more (which is a common truth). I say tell him some of your buttons, or some your favorite positions etc... he could then focus on doing those things whenever he wants that sense of reciprocation.
IIN he's frustrated he can't get me off?
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it's this fictitious mental block some men seem to have by default that a chick MUST always orgasm to enjoy sex. (and in a way you cant blame that thinking given that our frame of reference is our own experience)
maybe show him an article that states women can/still enjoy themselves without an orgasm. because otherwise he probably thinks you're only saying that to make him feel better (unless it's an ego thing to get you off, in which case, good luck). it might help if you say that you enjoy foreplay more (which is a common truth). I say tell him some of your buttons, or some your favorite positions etc... he could then focus on doing those things whenever he wants that sense of reciprocation.