I was in a very similar situation with my now ex. He said all of that stuff, and treated me like it was a chore to see me. (We lived 2 hours apart) I later found out that he cheated on me during the short 3 or 4 months we were dating. Sometimes people say that to their SO and that's their way of trying to get you to break up with them. Like he is trying to not hurt your feelings. There's also a chance that he means what he says. Relationships are very confusing sometimes.
IIN he isn't ready for a relationship but doesn't want me to leave?
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I was in a very similar situation with my now ex. He said all of that stuff, and treated me like it was a chore to see me. (We lived 2 hours apart) I later found out that he cheated on me during the short 3 or 4 months we were dating. Sometimes people say that to their SO and that's their way of trying to get you to break up with them. Like he is trying to not hurt your feelings. There's also a chance that he means what he says. Relationships are very confusing sometimes.